Who gets more jealous? You or your SO?

[Kitty 34]

A couple of years ago I would have said neither of us but my DH just told me he's been jealous of me going to my neck therapist!

Good thing my neck is better now!!

So who gets more jealous in your relationship?

 

[dizneenut]

Me.

 

[snoopy]

LOL Kitty! I'm jealous of your neck therapy too, mine is aching right now from sitting at the computer too long at work. By Friday I'm in serious need of some therapy.

Neither of us are the jealous type, but if hard pressed to pick one over the other I'd say he is more than I am. Especially when we were younger. Guys usually are more territorial than women, or at least that has been my experience.

 

[cynsaun]

Neither one of us is jealous. We tease eachother all the time about the other's admirers.

 

[EsmeraldaX]

Me.

I'd leave DBF if he were to start seeing any woman he's previously been intimate with. I don't even like the fact that he IM's the stupid girl all the time, esp. after what she did to him
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Why can't men get over their exes? I mean, geez, I don't even think about mine.

He could care less what I do. I could run off and have an affair and he probably wouldn't care or even notice. He's just not like that. (Not that I would, mind you, but if I did, he's shrug it off).

 

[onecoolmama]

DH is much more paranoid!

 

[jx3smom]

Me.

 

[grinningghost]

We aren't. We joke about it frequently too. DH is a natural born flirt, and if I allowed myself to get jealous every time he flirted with a woman, I'd be greener than Shrek.

 

[helenabear]

I am... not by much anymore, but I still feel the jealousy pangs every once in a blue moon. For the most part neither of us is, and it makes for easy/fun times with us

 

[Kitty 34]

OK.....I do have to admit feeling a bit jealous once when a co worker made my DH a giant afghan a couple of Christmases ago!!!

 

[minnieandmickeymouse]

I have to say me just because I am more vocal about it.

 

[grinningghost]

Originally posted by Kitty 34
OK.....I do have to admit feeling a bit jealous once when a co worker made my DH a giant afghan a couple of Christmases ago!!!

That's alot of work for a co-worker. She must really like him.

But, I know how the co-worker thing can be. DH has a co-worker who calls him with work questions all the time. She talks so loud I can hear her talking and the conversation always starts with "Hey Darlin' or Hey Sweetie". Jeez, I don't even call DH "darlin'" or "sweetie". He really hates when she does that.

 

[Mom2Ashli]

I would have to say DH.

 

[jeleebeene]

Definitely DH - he has a real problem with me talking with other guys (especially my Dr's, who are all male except for one). I just don't understand what his problem is - maybe he is insecure about something?? And this is coming from the man who refuses to wear his wedding ring, so really, who should be jealous and insecure here??

 

[ShuisFan584]

Definitely me!

My boyfriend has no reason to be jealous. I don't have any ex boyfriends, and there never seem to be guys that are interested in me, so he never has to be worried. Even if there were a lot of guys interested in me, I don't think he'd get jealous, he doesn't seem to be the jealous type.

I'm pretty bad when it comes to jealousy. I've always been jealous of other girls my whole life, and that still hasn't changed. My boyfriend has 5 ex girlfriends, and some of them still talk to him. He's also very good looking, so he always has a lot of girls after him. Girls are always flirting with him and that always makes me really jealous. I know he'd never hang out with any other girls, but it still makes me jealous.

 

[EsmeraldaX]

Originally posted by jeleebeene
And this is coming from the man who refuses to wear his wedding ring, so really, who should be jealous and insecure here??

 

[PatriciaH]

Me, me, me-I am such a Tink.

 

[vald1977]

Originally posted by PatriciaH
Me, me, me-I am such a Tink.

This made me smile .

I am more jealous than DH I would say but I'm not really all that jealous either. He is just insanely mellow and laid back .

 

[onecoolmama]

Originally posted by jeleebeene
And this is coming from the man who refuses to wear his wedding ring,

I dont wear mine either. He always wears his though.

 

[stitch79]

Me! I don't know why, I really dont have any reason to be so I try to keep it to myself.

We were out to dinner one night, and I went to the restroom. On my way back I could see him talking to the hostess like he knew her. She looked up at me coming back from the restroom and ran off! She didn't stay to say hello or anything, I asked my bf about it and he just said he knew her from school.

I can't imagine what look I had on my face that caused that...