Dh and I don't do any gifts for each other, we haven't in a really long time. I do all the shopping for the girls and it is no problem. He would have no clue what to get for them. We don't do "stockings". I get them a gift bag and fill it with items like new toothbrushes, razors, chapstick, purse size tissues, some candy, etc. I never had stockings growing up either.