Aww, come on! Live it up a little. Stop taking everything so seriously. You're never going to see the people in the restaurant again and it's rare that we're all able to let out hair down, laugh at ourselves and others, and have something fun to talk about for months after.
Isn't that why we go to Disney World - to have fun?
I'm sorry, but I do NOT go to Disney (and spend my hard earned money) to be embarrassed and harassed when I'm trying to eat! I don't think my family would enjoy this, and I don't want to waste my deluxe dining plan credits on it either!
I have a ressie for this place (breakfast) during our stay at Christmas - I will be canceling it tomorrow morning!

I'm glad I was informed before going, quite frankly I find the server's behavior ridiculous... maybe we will just do GF Cafe.