Ok, so now I'm totally confused!!!
At this point I'm leaning to doing Universal last, that FOTLA just seems like it would be so great, also we have never stayed at any of the Universal hotels, so that would be special. Another thing is that my boys will be 14 & 17 and really enjoy the more thrill type rides, so I know they will enjoy IOA, especially if there are no lines!
BUT... on the other hand... there's Disney <ahh sigh> and the magic of being there and ending the trip there. I guess in the end I will leave it up to my family and see what they would prefer to do.... because left up to me, I'll NEVER be able to make up mind!