mickeyluv'r
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A ride being "scary" is so subjective that it is impossible to say what will frighten your particular child. I remember when DS11 was 2, he rode all sorts of rides with no problems and only got scared on one ride, Winnie the Pooh! Go figure!
Honestly, about 95% of the attractions have the potential to be scary to someone depending on what someone is afraid of. Your best bet is to get a book as PP mentioned and check out all the descriptions. Another suggestion is to have someone in your party check it out first and see what they think.
I'd say, 100%. I've honestly heard of 'someone' being scared of practially every ride at WDW here on the DIS. A recent thread even revealed that a good number of adults are afraid to stay at the Boardwalk hotel! Go figure. (A clown face at the pool.) A HOTEL!
By far the best approach in our family has been to give the kids coping strategies over flat out avoiding any rides. If a child REALLY doesn't want to ride something we don't force them, but we always leave the choice up to them -rather than predisposing them to be afraid to try any attraction. We try to strongly encourage them to try everything once, after giving them a quick, honest description of what the attraction has. I'm not being critical, just stating what works best for us. More often than not, they end up not being afraid of what we/they think they will fear. The things that end up concerning them are usually - as the above poster said - things we'd never consider 'scary.'
Also, their likes and dislikes sometimes change dramitcally from one year tothe next. Something that bothers them one trip is of no concern the next. Conversely, something they were previously fine with, concerns them a year later. Simply teaching them to hold a hand or close their eyes can go a long ways. Letting them know that they don't have to do an attraction twice also is quite powerful in reassuring them.
For the most part, the kids in our famly are all FINE with Dinosaur. My adult sister hides her head, but the kids are fine. they may close their eyes, they may ride just once - but each trip they are willing and interesting in riding it at least once.
Last, one thing I feel strongly about. WDW is a great place to challange one's fears and have fun. I've been going to WDW since I was a small child and speak from experience. Before I went on SM, I thought I would hate it. Once I finally went, I loved it. Confronting rides I thought I'd dislike was very empowering for me as a child, and even going on new thrill rides as an adult. I don't love the orange side of M:S, but I was okay with riding it several times. I don't have a strong desire to go back every visit, but I'm so happy I've been on it.
(Actually, of all the attractions I'd consider avoiding with small kids - M:Space orange is one attraction I'd maybe avoid. The green side is fine.)
I also realize that what I said is easier for us, as we've been to WDW many times. If you haven't been then use a tour guide or read online descriptions to get a sense of each attraction to help you and your child decide what's best. No matter what though, I do think it's wise to let the child be a part of decision process.
Figured if I didn't include it, they'd have that darn thing up and running again.

