I know many will consider it sacrilege, but having experienced the Pirate menu six weeks ago on the Wonder, we both said that we would not mind choosing that menu to skip and dine at Palo's that night. For the Eastern, that will be Tuesday night, St. Martin. We'll probably do a double dip--we have early dining with DS, munch on an appetizer while he enjoys the Pirate theme--which again, didn't blow us away--and then scoot to Palo's for a 7 pm or so table, and be done in time for the deck party and fireworks. Honestly haven't checked which show we'll miss that night--but taking the advice of the earlier poster, this decision is food-based.
In terms of theme based, skipping your second night at Animator's, when there is no light show, is a great idea--but you have to check which menu that would mean missing. Dont skip the captain's gala just because it is your second night in animators.