I have stayed at three of the four moderates, all except CBR. We just returned two days ago from a stay at POR. We LOVED Coronado Springs and very much enjoyed French Quarter, but did not like POR. If your party likes both "rustic" and elegant, as you say, CSR is the perfect choice, in my opinion. There is a rustic-themed section of the resort, and a more elegant themed section. There is both a food court (though it's more upscale than the other moderates), and a lovely sit-down restaurant. The sit-down restaurant at POR is kind of like a Bob Evans restaurant, while the food court in the AM is total chaos. The grounds at CSR are just breathtaking from wherever you're standing because of that beautiful lake and the beautiful architecture and design of the main buildings. And the pool at CSR is incredible, with a long, long pool slide your kids would love. The grounds at POR are very pretty, but it is so overgrown you only see the river if you are right next to it. And we felt that the Mansion section buildings from the outside resemble a roadside motel from the 1970s. The boat ride to Downtown Disney from POR (and from French Quarter) is a wonderful treat, but the bus rides everywhere else were horrible during our stay -- long lines, always standing on the bus, waiting over 30 minutes for a bus to come to the resort. And I've only recently learned of the CSR "business class" option, which includes access to a lounge with light breakfast in the AM and snacks & drinks (including alcohol) in the evening. If we had known about that before our recent trip, that is where we would have tried to stay! I would stay at CSR again, and also at French Quarter, but never again at POR. This is just my experience. I know others stay there and love it.