Sorry to hear about the rain. I used to live on Oahu, and it's actually commonly windy at Ko Olina, but that isn't the rainy side of the island. We lived on the windward side, and had much more clouds and rain than the Waikiki area. Ko Olina shouldn't normally have too much rain.
Ko Olina is still fairly new (although in 1995 when we moved there, the Marriott hotel was already there, but under a different name). We stayed at the Marriott timeshare a couple of years ago with some friends that bought there - it was very nice!
I think the Disney resort should be very nice - they were also building a Ritz Carlton fractional ownership resort there also.