Where can someone breast feed there child?

[ckoncurat]

Its up to you. I personally find nothing comfortable about breastfeeding in public, especially in the Florida heat, but I LOVED the baby centers. Every 2-3 hours I would park myself in the airconditioned baby center with lots of free, ice cold water and enjoy some time off my feet!!! In between I kept a bottle of water available for baby and myself to make sure both of us stayed hydrated. I agree with the previous posters that any theater type show is a good alternative, but they always made me feel rushed- Hurry up baby! This show is only 12 minutes! =)

 

[GEM]

Oh, the centers are nice - especially the airconditioning! There was just no way I was hiking all the way back there everytime I needed to nurse. It would have taken a huge chunk out of my day. I'd rather find a nice bench in the shade or even nurse in the sling as we walked through the park. Everybody's different, though. Do what works best for you.

 

[ckoncurat]

I have a friend who just had her first baby, and her mother (old prude) has taught her it is wrong to feed in public. She hides in her car when she is out at a party or somewhere to feed. It is so strange to me, why on earth should someone feel ashamed to naturally nurse their baby. Don't make other peoples problems your own, just be discreet and don't be ashamed.

Not trying to start a debate here, but I think we also need to be sensitive to those who choose to nurse privately. I nursed five babies (and am expecting number six), but always chose to nurse privately. I have triple D breasts even when I'm not nursing, and as we know, babies yank off blankets!! I think a mom who choses to sit in the car should be respected for HER choice, not made to feel antisocial or prudish. I always felt more comfortable nursing where it was quiet and I was comfortable.
JMHO

 

[Jon99]

If you are good looking, by all means breastfeed whenever and wherever you choose, I have always have my digital ready for some great shots!!!!!

 

[GEM]

If you are good looking, by all means breastfeed whenever and wherever you choose, I have always have my digital ready for some great shots!!!!!

I'm honored that you'd be interested in a picture of the back of my baby's head, because that's all you'd get.

Idiotic comments like that (even ones made in jest) are part of the reason breastfeeding rates are so low in most of this country and why nursing moms have to fight every day against our society's bizarre hang-ups about breastfeeding in public.

And to think, that comment was coming from a high school teacher. How reassuring . . .

Ladies, don't even bother with this one. Please. I'm begging you.

 

[GEM]

Not trying to start a debate here, but I think we also need to be sensitive to those who choose to nurse privately.

Oh, and I just want to be clear. I have absolutely no problem with any woman who thinks she needs or wants more privacy when nursing. The only thing that bothers me is people trying to tell mothers they have no business nursing in public. If a mom chooses privacy for her own reasons, that's fine by me. Although, I will admit that I love seeing nursing moms when I'm out and about because every woman out there who nurses in public makes it a little easier for the next one.

 

[laceemouse]

Only went once with a bfing baby, my son who was 5 months old at the time. Our favorite spots were the dark/cool shows (although in October it wasn't too hot anyway.) And no, I am not good looking, but if someone would have taken a picture dh would have had a surprise for him!

 

[Jon99]

The comment was made because YES, I am offended by women that do this in public.. My wife has BF both of our children, I think its wonderful, but that it also has its place in a public setting..

I have seen women do this in public in a very obvious manner, if they don't have a problem with it thats great, but since I then need to explain things to my children, I have NO PROBLEM whipping my video camera out and making them feel a little embarrassed...

Someone used the example that its ok to do it in public because its natural... So is sex and ************, does that give me and my wife free reign on Main Street USA????

 

[minkydog]

Told ya!

 

[GEM]

Any moron that would get his kicks harassing mothers feeding their babies or who would compare feeding a baby to sex and ************ really isn't worth your time. Just shake your head and walk away feeling sorry for him.

Besides, if he's really in the habbit of turning his video camera on nursing moms to make them uncomfortable, eventually some dad will take care of him for us in the manner he deserves and we won't have to worry about him anymore. Seriously, this jerk's obvious pride and glee in embarassing mothers who are doing nothing more than feeding their babies is one of the most disturbing things I have ever read on this site. As for me, film away. I'll just smile and wave for the camera. You want to get some real exposed skin on your camera? Hang out at Blizzard Beach or at the pool. You'll see lots more there than you'll ever see from a nursing mom, no doubt.

Oh, and as for "explaining things to your children" how about something like, "That baby's having milk, just like your mommy gave you when you were little. Isn't that nice?"

Your attitude would be intolerable enough frrom a twenty-something year old guy with no kids and no experience, but coming from a father who says his wife nursed their children, I find it even more bizarre and sad.

 

[In Luv with Disney]

See, it's people like that, who make me more embarrassed than I am! And want to go into a bathroom stall!!!!! It TOTALLY shouldn't be that way. It's not like all of us BFing moms are trying to give everyone a free show...we are trying to feed our children with the best possible nutrition they can get. Why should we feel bad? Because your kids will have questions? Well, by all means, you should answer them with nothing but the truth!

I CANNOT believe sex/************ was put in the same sentence as breastfeeding.

 

[AnaheimGirl]

The comment was made because YES, I am offended by women that do this in public.. My wife has BF both of our children, I think its wonderful, but that it also has its place in a public setting..

I have seen women do this in public in a very obvious manner, if they don't have a problem with it thats great, but since I then need to explain things to my children, I have NO PROBLEM whipping my video camera out and making them feel a little embarrassed...

Both your children were breastfed, yet you don't want to explain it to them? I guess they stopped before they were old enough to remember, but still... I'm sorry, but this has me How hard is it to say "the baby is eating", or if they ask for more info "mothers bodies make milk for babies. your mom did the same for you were little."

 

[Jon99]

There are PLENTY of places, I recall my wife sitting in the baby centers for hours on end, why not respect others and do just that???? But instead we have people promoting to just do it wherever the baby gets hungry without thinking of others..

 

[BounceyOne]

Jon99 you need to reevaluate yourself. My child should cry with hunger while I walk across an entire amusement park to feed him somewhere in a room by myself because you have issues?

 

[GEM]

TBut instead we have people promoting to just do it wherever the baby gets hungry without thinking of others..

They are thinking of someone else - the baby.

Yes. Selfish, selfish mothers feeding those babies when and where they're hungry instead of dragging them back across a huge themepark to feed them alone in a little room. How self-centered of them.

I've yet to see a single woman remove her top and breastfeed naked in the middle of Main Street. It doesn't happen. Sorry. If just walking by a bench where a mother is seated feeding her baby causes you such overwhelming anxiety and anger issues, then that's really your bizarre problem - not hers.

Seriously, I'm not even going to bother responding to this anymore and I seriously encourage the rest of you to do the same. Honestly, I don't think this guy is a high school teacher at all. His logic and attitude come off more like that of an 7th grade boy.

 

[AnaheimGirl]

There are PLENTY of places, I recall my wife sitting in the baby centers for hours on end, why not respect others and do just that???? But instead we have people promoting to just do it wherever the baby gets hungry without thinking of others..

Courtesy and respect go both ways. You think it's OK to tell women they ought to spend "hours on end" hiding out in a baby center instead of enjoying the park, on the off chance that someone might be offended by seeing them nurse... Yet, you can't extend the minute and simple courtesy of turning your head and ignoring them? Most breastfeeding moms DO think of others when they nurse, and are careful not to reveal any skin. Please, how about you try taking your own advice and thinking of them a little bit, too?

 

[Bird-Mom]

The comment was made because YES, I am offended by women that do this in public.. My wife has BF both of our children, I think its wonderful, but that it also has its place in a public setting..

I have seen women do this in public in a very obvious manner, if they don't have a problem with it thats great, but since I then need to explain things to my children, I have NO PROBLEM whipping my video camera out and making them feel a little embarrassed...

Someone used the example that its ok to do it in public because its natural... So is sex and ************, does that give me and my wife free reign on Main Street USA????

You have a problem explaining to your children that a baby is eating? You are offended by a baby who is eating? Geez, you are really going to have some problems teaching your children about sex-especially when you compare it to feeding.

Oh, and your camera would not embarrass me. I am proud to nurse my children whenever and wherever they like. If some skin shows, I'll do my best to move my shirt back, but I will never be embarrassed. My dh would have something to say to you though.

I'm with GEM. I'm not going to argue with one guy who cannot handle the beauty of breastfeeding. To heck with small minded people who think that you need to cause embarrassment for a mama attending to her child's most basic needs. Shame on you. If it is that hard for you to turn your head, maybe you should bury it in the sand. If you really are a teacher, you should welcome the moment to explain to your children that the mama is feeding her baby the best food she can.

Mamas, carry on, be proud and nurse your babies whenever and wherever they need!

I will be nursing my 2 year old on our WDW trip this August and not hiding or running to a baby care center.

A nice NIP story at WDW...last year I was nursing my 15 month old on a bench near the end of the safari ride in AK. I noticed a mama with a small baby watching me. I smiled at her, and she came over and said "I have noticed you NIP here and earlier this morning. You are giving me courage to nurse my baby without running to the baby care centers." As we were exiting the park, I noticed her nursing right at the entrance. She smiled at me and we exchanged a .

 

[Mouse House Mama]

I have seen women do this in public in a very obvious manner, if they don't have a problem with it thats great, but since I then need to explain things to my children, I have NO PROBLEM whipping my video camera out and making them feel a little embarrassed...

Someone used the example that its ok to do it in public because its natural... So is sex and ************, does that give me and my wife free reign on Main Street USA????

I'm sorry but I have to take the bait here even though I know better than to argue with an ignorant person -but- you have to explain to your kids? How is that even possible? If you have more than one child did they not see your wife nurse the others at home or does she lock herself in a closet when she has to nurse? My kids know all about nursing because I nursed them all. They don't give it a second thought. Should I be offended if someone wants to give their child a bottle and I have to explain it to my kids? I don't think so. The fact that you compare sex and ************ to breastfeeding makes me worry for your kids. It's apples and oranges. Oh- and if you are a teacher please let me know where so I can make sure my kids never have you. Creepy! BTW- feel free to video me breastfeeding, I am proud of how I care for my kids, although if my dh catches you it might just be a video of your colon!

 

[cdndislvr]

The baby care centers are wonderful places to take a break from the heat and nurse your little one but IMO nurse your baby wherever you and he/she are most comfortable. When my dd was older, nursing her in the midst of all the activity in the parks was quite hilarious. She would latch on and then instantly pull away when something else caught her attention, so in that case it was much easier to nurse her in the quietness of the baby care centers. My children are now 21, 15 and 6 and it brings back wonderful memories to see a woman breasfeed in public, no matter where it may be.

My six year old has witnessed breastfeeding women in public and reacts no differently than if that baby was receiving a bottle. In fact when playing with her own dolls she often has one up her shirt because she's giving the baby "nummies".

To compare breastfeeding to a sexual act deserves absolutely no response!

 

[emh1129]

What is that quote again... something like 'never get in a battle of wits with someone who is unarmed' ?? I think that's how it goes...

Please don't tell me this person is really a teacher.. that has to be a joke.