Where are Terri Schiavo's ashes?

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Michael Schiavo is enjoying torturing her family.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/mai...08.xml&sSheet=/news/2005/05/08/ixnewstop.html

Parents' plea to Michael Schiavo: 'Tell us where Terri's ashes are'
By Philip Sherwell in Washington
(Filed: 08/05/2005)

The family of Terri Schiavo, the severely brain-damaged woman who died in March after her feeding tube was removed, say that they have no idea where her ashes have been laid to rest.

Giving their first interview since the tube was removed at the request of Mrs Schiavo's husband, the family claimed on American television that he was keeping her remains from them.


Terri Schiavo: her ashes could be
in a family plot in Pennsylvania
Bob and Mary Schindler, and their surviving children, Bobby Jr and Suzanne, claimed that Michael Schiavo had ignored a court order that he should keep them informed about her ashes and plans for a memorial service.

Mr Schiavo had said that her ashes would be buried at a family plot in Pennsylvania.

The interview on Fox News on Friday night was the latest skirmish in the bitter battle between the two sides of the family, who waged a long-running court battle over Mrs Schiavo's end-of-life wishes.

"We still don't know where Terri's ashes were laid," Bobby Jr said. "They were court-ordered, they were supposed to tell us, but we have not heard from Michael Schiavo."

Mr Schiavo's lawyer, George Felos, could not be reached for comment.

Mr Schindler countered claims by the lawyer that his daughter's death was "gentle" with a harrowing description of her condition after 13 days without food or water.

"She was struggling to breathe," he said. "The inside of her mouth looked like a piece of meat in a meat market. It was like meat that had been left out for a while.

"It was reddish maroon because her mouth was dry and her lips were cracking from the lack of hydration.

"This cannot happen again. If anyone would have witnessed it, they would have been so appalled that they would never allow it to happen again."

He said it had been "gut-wrenching" to watch her deteriorate.

"People were misled that it was a peaceful way for her to die," he said. "All you could see was her cheekbones. Her eyes were sunken in her head."

Terri Schiavo, 41, died in a hospice in Florida on March 31. She had suffered brain damage in 1990 after a chemical imbalance caused her heart to stop. She left no "living will" in the event that she became disabled.

Mr Schiavo argued that she would not have wanted to be kept alive after court-appointed doctors diagnosed that she was in a persistent vegetative state with no hope of recovery. The Schindlers, however, disputed that those were her wishes and argued that their daughter would benefit from extensive efforts to rehabilitate her.

During the interview they referred to the case of Donald Herbert, the New York fireman who suddenly woke up after 10 years in a semi-vegetative state and spoke lucidly to his wife.

Mr Herbert, 43, was knocked unconscious by debris in a burning building in 1995, leaving him blind and mostly mute until last Saturday.

"We immediately thought of Terri," said Suzanne. "What if they had given up on him?"

Mrs Schiavo's case attracted international attention and sparked a heated political and ethical debate as a series of judges ruled against the Schindler family.

The US Supreme Court refused to intervene even after President George W Bush signed a law allowing federal courts to become involved. "The system is just atrocious," Mr Schindler said.

Her family said that they believed she had been the victim of violence when she collapsed at home and her heart stopped. They said that there was no proof that she had collapsed because she was suffering from bulimia, insisting that she had lost weight several years earlier.

Bobby Jr said that the family was only made aware in 2002 of a bone scan taken a year after the incident. This showed that she had broken ribs, vertebrae, femur and knees. Mr Schiavo said that she suffered the injuries during her early treatment.

The family has set up the Terri Schindler Schiavo Foundation to speak out on behalf of others in a similar situation.

"Anyone out there, listening and watching, they should never ever let this happen to anyone else," Mr Schindler said.
 
oh, please...

if Michael disregarded a court order regarding Terry's burial, the Schindlers would have filed a motion for contempt instead of grantting interviews.


and frankly, if someone had called you all sorts of vile names in the press for two weeks while you were caring for your spouse in hospice, you'd be more than a little reluctant to share any info with them.

it stopped being about Terry a long time ago, it's all about the Schindlers and their need for the spotlight.

I can't stand those people!
 
I wondered how long it would take the Schindler's to find some excuse to get themselves back into the public spotlight.

It seems as if they just can't get enough of being the center of attention.

If they have a legal right to know and he's disobeying a court order, they should take the legal steps that are available to them rather than continuing to use their daughter as an excuse to get attention from the public.

Enough is enough.
 
So you mean it's ok for him to withold information like that from her parents? I can only hope that you don't have to grieve one of your children like they have to grieve theirs, not knowing where she is.
I'm sorry but I have no respect for this man, he's the one who started another family while his wife was in a vegetative state . Not much of for better or worse , or in sickness and in health if you ask me. But besides of what he did , under no circumstances he should hide from her parents where she is resting , he's doing it to be spiteful. JMO.
 

They need to let it go (the fight with MS)...this is ridiculous.

Also, not a word about the autopsy results? What happened there?
 
poohandwendy said:
They need to let it go (the fight with MS)...this is ridiculous.

Also, not a word about the autopsy results? What happened there?[/QUOTE

You mean the autopsy that was supposed to prove that Michael beat and then tried to kill Terri? :rolleyes: ]
 
So you mean it's ok for him to withold information like that from her parents?
I would say it is jus about as ok as their continually slandering his reputation to the public.
You mean the autopsy that was supposed to prove that Michael beat and then tried to kill Terri?
Yep, that's the very one...it also was supposed to prove that she wasn't in a persistent vegetative state. Wonder why they aren't bringing the results to the attention of the media? Things that make you go hmmmmm...
 
Is there a smilie of a dead horse being beaten?

I wonder if they have tried to simply pick up the telephone & ask Mr. Schaivo ?
 
poohandwendy said:
They need to let it go (the fight with MS)...this is ridiculous.
I agree , the fight needs to stop , but if I was in the same shoes I would want to know where my daughter is resting and I think we would all like that if it ever happened to one of our loved ones.
If going to the press and giving interviews is what is going to get some action , then so be it. I know I would do anything I could to find where my child was resting.
 
If going to the press and giving interviews is what is going to get some action , then so be it. I know I would do anything I could to find where my child was resting.
Oh come on, if the court ordered it, they simply need to get their atty to go to the court and demand the info. It's really that simple.

Did you notice how the bulk of the interview is NOT about her remains? This is just a ruse to get at MS. It's disgusting.
 
poohandwendy said:
Oh come on, if the court ordered it, they simply need to get their atty to go to the court and demand the info. It's really that simple.
The court also knew that you need a living will to do what they did , and they decided to by-pass that one. I agree , they need to go to court , but perhaps they have done it and gotten nowhere , we don't know ( at least I don't ).
 
If information that was court-ordered to be shared is being witheld, then the Schindlers have every right to take thier complaint to the court, and have the court follow-up on ordering Michael Schiavo to provide the information necessary. Instead, they choose, once again, to try him in the court of public opinion. :rolleyes:

I am going to be perfectly honest with you...based on what Mr. Schindler said about Terri's condition alone at her death, I don't believe them. There isn't a hospice in the world that would let a dying patient be in that condition. There are numerous products available for comfort care...care of the dying person. My hospital is not a hospice, and even we have mouth care products, which includes a mouth moisturizer, so that if you do have a person who is unable to eat, you can still provide oral care, make sure their oral mucosa remains intact etc. There is not a reputable inpatient hospice facility in this country that would allow a dying patient's mouth to deteriorate to the condition which Mr.Schindler describes. And, to be perfectly honest with you, based on the notoriety of this case, even if the facility where Terri spent her last days was so bad that they'd let a dying person lie there like that, it wouldn't have been Terri Schiavo who was left in that condition. I gurantee you that their care of her was perfect, because knowing the mindset of her parents and siblings, the hospice did not want to set themselves up for litigation later.
 
The court also knew that you need a living will to do what they did , and they decided to by-pass that one.
Um, no they didn't. The courts followed the letter of the law all the way through.
I agree , they need to go to court , but perhaps they have done it and gotten nowhere , we don't know ( at least I don't ).
Well, you would think they would be making a stink about the COURT not upholding its's own order, right?
 
rubyslipperlover said:
oh, please...

if Michael disregarded a court order regarding Terry's burial, the Schindlers would have filed a motion for contempt instead of grantting interviews.


and frankly, if someone had called you all sorts of vile names in the press for two weeks while you were caring for your spouse in hospice, you'd be more than a little reluctant to share any info with them.

it stopped being about Terry a long time ago, it's all about the Schindlers and their need for the spotlight.

I can't stand those people!
Agreed...they really are just pathetic at this point.
 
I agree with you DD, I am not buying their stories. There is no way a hospice under such scrutiny would allow what they describe.

The Schindlers have lost all credibility and respect in my eyes.
 
JimB. said:
Is there a smilie of a dead horse being beaten?

beat-dead-horse.gif
 
browneyes said:
Why doesn't he just tell them where her ashes are?


IMO, it's because he's a scumbag that enjoys the power he has to inflict pain on this family. He fought them tooth and nail to have the right to kill their daughter and now he's able to keep them from knowing where her ashes are buried.
 
BuckNaked said:
IMO, it's because he's a scumbag that enjoys the power he has to inflict pain on this family. He fought them tooth and nail to have the right to kill their daughter and now he's able to keep them from knowing where her ashes are buried.
BINGO!!!!!

Um, no they didn't. The courts followed the letter of the law all the way through.
Baloni! If they did , they would have asked for a living will. They just went by what a spouse suposedly claimed were her wishes without having any proof.
 


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