We started a tradition in my house when my daughter was young, that every Wednesday night is girl's night out. My DD and I go out to eat at a place that we both agree on, and then we go shopping or run errands, or just spend the evening together. Nothing is allowed to interfere. If she has a game or a school function, we go before or after.
Now that she is 14, it is tough sometimes to get her to go, but we have our best chats over dinner together. I intend to keep this up as long as possible, even when she is grown if she wants.
Since she has done this ever since she was three, she may gripe and groan, but she usually will go. Once she is out, she relaxes and tells me lots of things about what is going on in her life.
I enjoy the time I get to spend with her with no phone, no friends, and no interference.