Thanks everyone! I totally agree with you all, and really am grateful to have the confirmation that missing out on party time is not worth the dinner experience. The party is so amazing and I am arriving on that Friday just so I can do the last party of the year. Last year I went and it was the highlight of my vacation. This year I am really dead set to meet the 7 dwarves, so I would be super disappointed if it took up 2 hours of party time waiting in line. Sooner I can get in line the better!!
There's just me in my party, I am a solo vacationer, so I have found that Disney is a little more flexible with me because I am alone. I have actually never had a request denied, because it is just me they are accommodating. Of course, I have never really asked for anything too big and certainly not at the level of Be Our Guest, where I am sure they get lots of requests and cannot accommodate everyone. So, I don't think I wanna bank my whole day on whether Disney will sprinkle some magic on me, when I am sure they will be getting a lot of people with the same request.
I am going to just do the Monday dinner. I don't mind eating late, and I might revise my Monday plans to make that a sleep in day so I am not too tired. Then it will be a nice late dinner, and 2 hours in the MK before it closes for the night! Thanks again for all the input! And if anyone needs a 12/18 6pm ressie for BOG, I'll be releasing it probably later today.