...A manual wheelchair is exhausting. I can propel mine by myself for a while and then I get tired and DH has to push me, which is tiring for him.
I prefer to take my power wheelchair to WDW primarily because, in my experience, it is the perception of many people that a person on an
ECV does not have a disability but is merely lazy. Take that same person, put them in a wheelchair, and you remove the looks of scorn and the snide comments. You see, even with all my medical issues, I appear healthy. And that's all many people see.
I'm sure a lot of people would say just ignore the comments and dirty looks but I just want to enjoy my vacation without feeling the need to justify they way I have to approach it.
I don't often get upset here, but this really bothers me.
First of all, how others perceive you is the worst possible reason to use a wheelchair. I use my personal ECV as a tool to get things done - nothing more. I don't like that my legs don't work the way they should, but I'm not going to use a wheelchair just so people will believe me to be "truly" disabled.
I could care less what any one besides my family thinks when I am at WDW. They're all too busy taking selfies and posting their lunch to Instagram. I promise you, the huge majority of the "able-bodied" at WDW don't give a tiny rat's patootie about you, and your wheelchair - or me and my ECV. They're all too self-absorbed. That's why, by the way, they will walk right in front of you - or sometimes right INTO you - they aren't paying attention!!!
I will never see any of those other guests again. My chances of seeing you, or anyone else who is at WDW at the same time I am ever again? Slim to none, and Slim just left town. I have a better chance of buying a lotto ticket AND getting hit by lightning on the same day. WHO CARES WHAT THEY THINK? What matters is that I am able to keep up with my family, and create those memories that are so very precious to me while I'm at WDW.
In the last 5 years, I have seen a broad improvement in the acceptance of the disabled (in general) at WDW. There are FAR fewer stares, FAR fewer snide remarks (if any) and FAR fewer issues, even at the bus stops. When was the last time you were at WDW? I've been three times in the last 12 months, and have had ZERO issues with other guests.
If you saw me, you might think that I was a perfectly healthy middle aged Bunny Mama. I'm not. I have physical issues that aren't at all obvious, that are considered within this community to be "hidden disabilities". My medical issues are profound, and my prognosis is not at all what I want it to be. But I have decided to use my personal ECV because it's very lightweight (without me on it) and I can get it in and out of my car without assistance. It runs all day at WDW on one battery, and it's very quick and nimble.
You say that others may perceive me as "lazy", but I know the truth.
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@nikjd68: Encourage your MIL to go to Wal-Mart, or Lowes, Target, Home Depot, etc. and practice driving the big carts there. If she can master one of those, anything she rents at WDW will be a *breeze* by comparison.
Yes - she can walk up the ramp, and someone else can load (and unload) the ECV for her. Make sure that the bus driver understands the situation.
And if you do decide to rent a wheelchair, a gel cushion is a must - as are bike gloves for whoever has to push her. Because there are far more ramps, hills, and inclines at WDW than you realize (until you are pushing that chair around!) The bike gloves will help prevent blisters on the pushers hands.
Whatever your MIL decides to do - tell her not to worry. Tell her to use whatever she decides she is comfortable with as a TOOL to have a great time with her family, and to have the best possible time with the least amount of pain. And not to worry about what any other guest may - or may not - think about her. Because I promise you - no one cares. Seriously. They are all too busy updating their Facebook status.