Yes, thanks for sharing. Loved the saying on your t-shirt! We've been in that stateroom a few times. Unfortunately some able bodied folks have seen the verandah or the square footage of that stateroom and reserve it ( some even do it on a regular basis) without needing the accommodations just because it's larger. It's sad and I hope that for the poster who couldn't get an accessible stateroom on her cruise for her FIL it was due to others truly needing them. They are limited so it's best to reserve asap if you know you need one, which I realize isn't always possible as they do book quickly.
I'm not the OP but I can answer some of the questions. For the lifeboat drill if you're in your stateroom beforehand you'll get a call from a crew member offering assistance. Take them up on it! Someone will escort you to the muster station. Your station will likely be inside Animator's Palate. You'll be seated towards the front of the restaurant and someone will come over to tell you and other guests with w/c's that you're welcome to leave a bit early. Take them up on it! There's a mad rush for the elevators. Sometimes we don't want to miss the sailaway party afterwards so if you have a person who can bring all the lifejackets back to the stateroom then the person in a w/c might want to head straight up to deck 9 or 10 afterwards to get a good seat by the stage. ( there's a raised platform area with railing on deck 9 that's nice for observation ). For the theater shows there is seating in the back and also up front if you can transfer. For front row seating you need to be there early as a crew member will have to escort you down the elevator to get there. For the movie theater there's designated seating in the rear. The restaurants are all accessible. The only trouble I've ever had is with elevators and rude people who will run in front of you even if you were waiting first, or elevators that come full and people won't get out, even to walk up/down one flight of stairs. Once you're at your destination though you should be fine but it IS best to travel with an able bodied person who can assist you with some of the doors, etc. As to the ports of call, it depends on which ports you're visiting as to how accessible they are. Remember that other countries don't have to follow the ADA.---Kathy