What Would You Do

[lovinwdw]

I have been friends with this girl since our senior year in high school. We are 30 now. When we were younger (early 20's) she dated my DH's best friend. They broke up quite a long time ago and they are both now dating people pretty seriously. Anyway, before my wedding I had everyone in the wedding party over to my house. She decided to go in the pool and take her top off in front of everyone at the party (including my DH's best friend and his new girl friend). She did it pretty much for their benefit. Anyway, I am having people over for New Year's Eve this year (including DH's best friend and girl friend). I really don't feel comfortable inviting my girlfriend because I am afraid that as soon as she starts drinking she may do something melicious. She has been known to do this in the past and I don't want any uncomfortable situations at my house. What do you guys think?

 

[ziggystardust]

what did her BF think of her baring it all in front of a bunch of people (inc. her ex)?

It depends if she was at all remorseful of the first situation. If she wasn't, I'm sure she'll find it fun to do it again.

 

[lovinwdw]

what did her BF think of her baring it all in front of a bunch of people (inc. her ex)?

It depends if she was at all remorseful of the first situation. If she wasn't, I'm sure she'll find it fun to do it again.

Her BF was working that night and couldn't come. I had to walk up to her and tell her to put her top back on. I was mortified. When she asks me now why I don't invite her over when he comes over, I tell her that I am afraid she may take her top off again. She just laughs. Needless to say, she is not remorseful at all!!!

 

[ckay87]

Yea, unless she was really sorry (or at least said she was) I think you can expect the same again. And if you don't want that at your party, I think she needs to stay away. Sorry, but as I tell my kids, "if you want to be invited back, you better behave yourself!"

 

[CapeCodTenor]

I don't think I'd invite her. And if she asks, you could always tell her that you felt she might do a repeat of the topless incident.

 

[Christine]

Wow, she must be very "proud" of her attributes! I would not invite her back. What an attention seeker.

 

[lovinwdw]

Wow, she must be very "proud" of her attributes! I would not invite her back. What an attention seeker.

That is exactly what she is. The funny thing is...Her ex-BF didn't even see it!!! He was sitting with his back to her.

 

[SC Minnie]

I wouldn't invite her.

 

[disykat]

Wow, she must be very "proud" of her attributes! I would not invite her back. What an attention seeker.

That's what I was thining. Sheesh - I'm sure his new girlfriend has breasts too!

 

[lovinwdw]

That's what I was thining. Sheesh - I'm sure his new girlfriend has breasts too!

She just has no idea!! He is so in love with his new girlfriend. They live together and they are planning on getting married. My friend just thinks that he will never find anyone better than her. That is the kind of person she is. She actually bad mouthed his girlfriend at my wedding to his sisters!! I was so mad when I found out. Especially since I told her prior to the wedding to behave herself and be nice. It is a shame that I have to tell an ADULT to act like an adult should.

 

[horseshowmom]

Wow, she must be very "proud" of her attributes! I would not invite her back. What an attention seeker.

I wouldn't invite her either. She'll probably try to do something outrageous again - particularly since she seems to think it was funny to start with.

 

[BeNJeNWaFFLe]

I wouldn't invite her. You don't need to deal with the consequences of her actions. Maybe after awhile of not being invited along she will get the point and grow up. But there are a lot of people that just never get it...

 

[diznygirl]

This reminds me of the old saying "With friends like these, who needs enemies."

Don't invite her.

 

[minkydog]

She's 30 and acting like this You need a new friend. Don't invite her back even if she begs pretty please. She enjoys making you squirm