what woudl you think...

[L107ANGEL]

LOL, go to tools (top of your screen) and then go to 'clear private data'...at least that is how it is on mine (Mozilla Firefox)

Not that I have anything to hide mind you

 

[poohandwendy]

Not that I have anything to hide mind you

LOL, of course not. After all, you are an angel, right?

 

[daughter_of_amid_chaos]

I have it set so mine automatically erases everything. It makes my computer move faster.
Snooping will just get you into trouble.

 

[User Name]

... if every time you went to check your email on your boyfriend's laptop, there was no browser history or recently viewed documents?

*you live with boyfriend and have for 2.5 years
*he has a history of lying about looking at... stuff...

.... just trying to validate that I was right is questioning why he chooses to do this and hide all his ongoings on his laptop... if I'm out of line, let me know.

You make a habit about spying on your boyfriend for 2.5 years and you think HE'S the (only) one with issues?!?

IMHO, if you don't trust him enough not to have to spy on him, you're not in the right relationship - whether or not he's doing anything wrong. There's no trust - without that, what kind of relationship can you have?

 

[L107ANGEL]

LOL, of course not. After all, you are an angel, right?

Of course

 

[sweetspicy]

Thank you everyone for your replies! I do want to update. We have had trust issues in the past, and I have worked so hard to get over them. He's asked me to trust him, so today I put it to him that in order for this to work, he has to trust me too. He told me I was exactly right, that I have come so far and that it is now he that he has to work on trusting. Thanks for all your help!

I hope it works out for you!

 

[musicotb]

You make a habit about spying on your boyfriend for 2.5 years and you think HE'S the (only) one with issues?!?

IMHO, if you don't trust him enough not to have to spy on him, you're not in the right relationship - whether or not he's doing anything wrong. There's no trust - without that, what kind of relationship can you have?

Let's not assume... we know what that does.
1) NO TRUST ISSUES for the 1st year
2) After that, didn't need to snoop, it was right in front of me
3) DBF admitted there was a problem with the "stuff" and promised he'd never look again, b/c his behavior was more than casual
4) Hadn't looked at his stuff in well over 6 months

Please don't be accusing unless you know the facts. And we've come a LONg way on the trust thing... I think if every time someone ran from a relationship b/c they got scared, no one would be together. I am GLAD that I stuck by, even in the absence of trust, b/c in regaining that trust we have gotten closer and I feel like my love & respect has grown. So many ppl want to jump to "if you can't trust him, then you should get out."... eh, some things are worth the work.

 

[Jeanny]

I delete my history, etc daily. I'm not hiding anything. But is sounds like both of you don't trust each other!

 

[lovemygoofy]

Well I'm going to suggest something completely different. Set up a guest account for yourself, actually have him set it up. You don't log onto his stuff or accidentally look into his stuff and he can feel safe.

I do have to say though, if you are asking why he would be doing this, you have doubts about something or another. Good luck I hope it works itself out.

 

[Disney Doll]

You make a habit about spying on your boyfriend for 2.5 years and you think HE'S the (only) one with issues?!?

IMHO, if you don't trust him enough not to have to spy on him, you're not in the right relationship - whether or not he's doing anything wrong. There's no trust - without that, what kind of relationship can you have?

This is very wise.

You two have issues. And trust issues are usually a deal breaker eventually.