Not sure how large a wedding you are referring to. As far as reception venues go, our reception was at Atlantic Dance Hall which you can see if you head over to the Boardwalk one evening when it is open. Great location but I would not do with less then 50 people - I do know someone that had 40 there but 50 was a great amount. The Attic on the Boardwalk would be a great place if you are having 40 and under people. It is above Jellyrolls and I would love to see that place.
I have always wanted to see The Living Seas private space. I am not sure if I would want my reception there as it seems dark but this is definately one I would love to check out - everyone says how beautiful it is. I am sorry I didn't go see it when we were down for our site visit.
Linda