At MK, we always eat lunch at Tony's. It is not counter service, and it's about the same price as most counter service meals. Kids meals are $5 and include a drink, and at least 3 of your kids can order from the kids menu. The 14-year-olds can either share a pasta dish or pizza, and add a salad for a few $$. My kids love salads; my youngest sometimes gets only a salad for lunch at Tony's. And 2 of my 4 kids drink only water, so that saves money, too. My husband never concerns himself with the cost of anything, so we don't really try to save money here, but I am always pleasantly surprised when I get the bill. We tried Cosmic Ray's for the first time for dinner on our last trip, and found the prices to be quite good. Ordering here can be a little tricky if you are a single parent with young kids because there are several "stations" that sell different things. With the ages of your kids, though, you could easily put 2 other kids in a different line. At AK, the meal deal certificates are a good deal, and you can use them at several restaurants. At Epcot, we used to eat lunch at Teppanyaki every trip, but the prices have gone up recently,and it is now well over $100 for the 6 of us. I would suggest counter service at any of the countries: our favorites are Mexico and Morrocco. We found Liberty Inn(in America) to be reasonably priced, but we rarely eat there because we can get a hamburger anytime at home. Not everyone will agree with me on this one, but we like going to the Rainforest cafe on every trip, and it doesn't always cost a fortune to eat there. I think they have the most extensive menu on property, so you're sure to find something for everyone. And the portions are huge, so we always share. Kids meals are a little pricey($6-8),but the rest of the menu is not outrageous. The lunch and dinner menu is the same, so you could have a special dinner here one night. My 16 and 14-year-old daughters always share an adult entree,and my son orders a pizza. My youngest will sometimes get a kids meal, but usually orders the quesadillas(appetizer) as her meal. Most of their appetizers are big enough to be a meal.
SHARE meals and snacks!!! This is one of the easiest ways to save big! Often the portions are very big (Especially for the little ones) The less food you throw away, the less money you waste. Plus, this gives you the chance to sample more things. More often than not, even as adults, we find that while we really want item X (popcorn for example) when we see it, we really only want a taste it. Disney has great food options in the quick service price range. Plus, if you share a meal, and it isn't quite enough, and you don't want to wait in the same line again, food is everywhere - walk about 100 feet in any direction, and you are sure to find another place to buy food.
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