guess i'll answer my own question! i like reading all these!
for me looks-wise, i like a taller guy for sure, muscular-ish but not super muscle man, just not a twig. hair colour doesn't really matter, i prefer brown though (i've dated a strawberry blondey once though, he was a cutie)
not much else, just generally attractive enough to catch my eye. i like an athletic guy.
personality-wise;
sense of humour is a must! the ability to laugh at yourself, not taking yourself too seriously is definitely really important.
i like a romantic guy whose sweet and really genuine
i don't mind if he's a but shy in public but around me i like a guy who can be himself
adventurous, i would NEVER be able to date someone who just wanted to sit around all the time like a lump.
having a good balance of toughness and sensitivity and knowing when each is necessary is
what would keep me...
well, i think what's kept me in my relationship for the past 3 1/2 yrs is because he's really considerate, and very patient.
and he's always willing to go out and have fun and try something new! (last weekend we went to the airport and just explored and rode the monorail and it was such a fun little adventure) but if we stay in we always manage to have a good time as well.
we know that we each have our own circle of friends, and though he'll hang out with my friends and i'll have out with his, it's OK if we hang out with our friends without each other. we're pretty independent when it comes to that sort of thing.
he's just honestly the kindest more caring, sweet and genuine person ever and that's made me want to stay with him aaaaalways, we just lucked out because we're really compatible.
you just described me xDsorry for going all wanda creepy on you 
