Sudden news of an impending layoff back in april of '09, just after financing DVC, scared, as my son says, the pants off of us. DH was able to find a job that started the day after his last day at the old one, and just after he realized that contract work, even for his DREAM company, was just NOT for him, the old company asked him to interview for a job and he got it. But the FEAR didn't go away with the good job luck.
I think I have just become more aware of where the money is going and tried to plug up the holes in a leaky budget.
That was definitely our first step.
We found Dave Ramsey in March. Best thing that has ever happened to us in our marriage.
Finally paid attention to all the DR threads here on the Dis starting in around May '09. We don't do him 100%, let's go back to the DVC we financed and chose to not get rid of...with no interest in renting the points, it "makes" us travel. However, we did a trip to DLR in October, and we won't go to Disney again until this huge WDW trip we're planning in December of this year. Compared to Sept '07 through Oct '09, that's nothin'.
Because of DR, we realized we COULD find "extra" money in our checking account simply by blocking those leaks and focusing. Paid off our nasty-interest car 35 months into the 66 month loan, wooooo! Never thought we'd do THAT! Right now we're using the snowball to save everything we can for the trip (and associated expenses like clothing, etc etc), just to make SURE we don't get ourselves into trouble, but after we get back, it's ALL going to DVC. Signed that 10 year loan back in March '09 thinking "oh yeah we'll pay it early" with absolutely no idea how we would do that...and now we know how!
It said it was wedding china so I'm assuming it was wedding gifts. It doesn't appear they were overly materialistic to begin with either, but have really tightened things up even more. I personally could probably feed 100 with all the different china I have. Am I materialistic? Not even close! I just really, really happen to love china and have been fortunate to have inherited some nice stuff which I USE. There's a difference between having stuff just to have it, or having it to use. I decided a long time ago the queen was never coming for dinner and that my husband and kids are the most important people that will ever eat at my dinner table, so it's not unusual at all for us to use fine china and crystal for dinner once in a while. My daughter loves it, even dresses up and speaks in a British accent

and for that hour or two, she feels very special and important. So sometimes, posessions can also be experiences. Now clothes on the otherhand (for our family) if they're not being worn, out they go! I don't have a lot of decorating knick knacks either, I like the modern, minimalistic look myself, but dangit, I'm not getting rid of my china!
I totally agree. We have 10 settings of our own chosen china, bought for us or with money given to us, and then I have 8 settings of my mom's china. We use them. NOt as often as I would like b/c DH is the dish-washer and he balks at it, but I plan to use it more.

Just the other day DS insisted we use it for veggie burgers b/c he felt that we needed to celebrate our anniversary again, which makes two celebrations and it isn't even our anniversary yet (DH will be on a business trip for it). It's just FUN to use the china.
Now, we have been paring down on the old CDs we never listen to! Next step will be to get rid of all the vinyl albums I inherited from my mom...have carted them around since stepdad sent them out in '02, haven't listened to them once... With CDs and vinyl gone, all we need next is to replace all books with Kindle versions, and we could rent a smaller apartment!
OH! That was the other thing. While DH was scrambling for a job to start June '09, we let our landlady know. She dropped the rent by $200. We just signed another lease with her, and she didn't raise it back. She has a few rental properties and we've been with her a relatively long time (we met her b/c she was the apartment manager at the complex where we lived starting in '03)...we're good tenants, always letting her know as soon as something breaks, not messing things up, etc etc...so even though dropping the rent hurt her a bit, KEEPING good tenants is more important to her! We're all fairly certain we'll rent from her until such time as we buy our own place. Works for everyone!