People can differ about the decor, I guess. Funny, too, I recall no mauve at all. It seems more beige to me. In any event, we love the refined and quiet atmosphere. Quite frankly, dh and I are so tired of expensive and "trendy" restaurants, with noisy open kitchens, no tablecloths, bare floors and walls off of which noise bounces continuously, no background music, and service in the mode of "Hi, my name is Jack and I'll be your server", that we find V&A a delightful respite. We love the large, well-spaced tables, the cocoon-like decor that shuts out the world, the harp music and the unpretentious and attentive service. I could not care less what the servers are wearing!
A few additional thoughts -- V&A is a must do every trip for dh and me, the wine pairing may be the best bargain of the trip (given that many restaurants now charge upwards of $20 for a glass of middle-market wine) and the food is extraordinary -- highest quality and layered with amazing flavors. V&A is an evening to be savored -- we never, ever plan anything for our evening at V&A but dinner at V&A. We do not try to run over to MK for fireworks, or to La Nouba because we are on the one-night Platinum Plan and still need to fit in a circus and an Illuminations cruise. Our evening at V&A is focussed on great food, wine, relaxation and enjoyment.
A couple of years ago, a friend and I were in Orlando for business and took one night to have dinner at V&A. She loved it so much, she now will not visit Disney without spending an evening at V&A.
Also, just to clarify, men are required to wear a jacket. A tie is not required.