What makes "frugal" hard for you?

Kids clothes. I don't know why, but I love buying clothes for my kids and it's hard to pass up good deals.




As my husband says "It's not a good deal if you don't need it"

SIGH. Me too. :sad2: I don't do thrift of consignment shops because honestly, I can get brand new, name brand stuff for cheaper when it's on clearance. My weakness is Old Navy clearance and the Osh Kosh outlet. This is why all of my kids have WAYYYYY too many clothes.
 
I've always been frugal, cheap, miserly, a penny pincher, whatever you want to call it. What is your place, weakness, or other wise demise that makes it hard for you to be frugal?

I think my biggest holdback is that I'm not naturally frugal, cheap, miserly or a penny pincher, lol! I grew up poor and I prefer to be generous, giving, pampered and able to travel....I struggle :rotfl:
 
Things that make it tough for me to be frugal: Well, actually nothing. Frugal pretty much always wins in the end for me, but some things are a challenge:

- Working. I'm tired when come home, and I'm not always in the mood to cook and do other time consuming chores.
- Lack of space. Finding things, finding things after I've re-purchased them.

Just for the record, I always seem to spend less money when I shop at Walmart, though -- aside from groceries -- a great deal of their stuff is just garbage. I try to buy quality so that things won't need replacing, and that's hard to do at Walmart. Target's quality isn't a whole lot better. They just understand how to stage and advertise their products better. Certain things are better at one place or the other. For example, I can usually get better prices /quality on chicken, bread and paper products at Target, but Walmart beats them on canned goods.
 

I stay out of Walmart due to the crowds and the quality of merchandise. I don't think they are cheaper - I'd rather go to Aldi and get in and out quickly.

It's funny how the more stuff a store has, the more likely you are to spend on impulse buys. My Mom was notorious for this - she rarely left a Walmart without spending $100.00 to $150.00 on just stuff like groceries, gifts, seasonal items, etc.

If I need to buy something for my home, I favor Target. I just don't usually like the selection and quality at Walmart. When I've paid "less" there - I've gotten what I paid for (in an unpleasant way - like the cheap shower curtain rod for $10.00 that took my hubby an hour to install and made him curse). For clothes, I'll usually end up at Penney's or Sears...
 
I thought Walmart is very good for hiring seniors.

My aunt worked there. Liked it. Then my mom (her sister) died, and they would not give her even a DAY off to go to the funeral. Not one day. My mom's funeral was a weekday, my aunt lived in FL and she had to get to VA.

My aunt had to QUIT in order to attend her sister's funeral.

I can't support a company that does that.

Also, we recently found that we love pomegranites but they were $1 each.

A dollar's a bargain for pomegranates around here.

food for me is a big one. i am celiac and GF stuff can be much more expensive, $6 for a loaf of bread anyone?

I would probably try baking your own bread. The start-up purchases for bread can be high, but then the loaves aren't that much.

We are trying to finish up paying off CC debt. She wonders why we can't seem to get it paid off. :confused3

That has got to be SO hard. I'm sorry. :hug: To give you something else to worry about; a friend of mine had a frugal husband (not in a bad way, but in a mature grownup way while she still wanted to be childlike). She got her own, secret, credit card. She paid for it with getting cash out while using her debit card for groceries. So if you're not looking at the receipts, you might want to, just to be sure $$ isn't coming out of that. Sorry to do that to you, but it's something that some people do. Our friendship waned before he finally figured it out, but I'm SURE he did, eventually.

My dogs are what makes it hard for me to be frugal.

I can imagine!

My husband and son REALLY want to get a dog, but we simply cannot afford one. They aren't big fans of this line of thinking, but we had a cat and she had serious problems (can a cat be OCD? she was, and it came out in licking one spot on her leg until she'd started a horrid, long-lasting, infection...and she had a very strict diet, etc etc), and that got expensive enough. Let alone a dog with its greater needs for food...


I love to shop and I love to take expensive vacations! :scared1:

I was just wondering what my downfall was, and yep, it's vacations. :goodvibes


The women I see working in Wal-Mart seem to be doing just fine.

That's nice, but it doesn't mean that's true everywhere, or even true for the women you're seeing *while they are at work*.

My mom just missed being part of the Publix class action suit (she had quit before the time period mentioned in the suit started), but that suit CHANGED things for women working at Publix. My mom experienced the discrimination loud and clear EVERY day working there, and it was awful for her. But if you saw her AT work you would never have known she was miserable and just waiting for her clearance to come through for the job she was getting.
 
I am having a hard time with the grocery budget too. Especially since I want to add more fish like Salmon to our diet and the wild caught is better for you. Best price I've found is the Alaskan at Costco frozen for $8 pound.

Also, we recently found that we love pomegranites but they were $1 each.

That is the ONLY thing cheaper about living in Alaska. Most people just fish for their own (we have huge subsistence limits and are allowed to dipnet fish). Plus, people fish for their own halibut, too (I have two halibut charters booked for this summer, plus King (Chinook), Copper River Red (Sockeye) and Silver (Coho) trips planned with some friends. :banana: )

My budget buster is fruit. What's barged up here isn't very good, so now and then I'll buy from a guy who sells various fruit by the case. I never thought I'd pay $70 for a big box of peaches, but you know, sometimes you really want fresh fruit!
 
I quit Walmart too. Not only do I not like the way they treat woman, I have a serious issue with a multi-billion dollar corporation telling their hardworking employees to go use public assistance instead of stepping up and doing the right thing. It has been a pleasure on my wallet and my senses.

My weakness is Barnes and Noble. It is so hard for me to remain frugal in there for some reason.
 
We are as well...he spends, I save. He keeps me from being too frugal, I keep him from going broke :)

This is us as well! My boyfriend could spend any dime that crossed his fingers ... and it's something we're still working on. It's hard because I'm not working, so how can I tell him how to spend the money ...
 
I agree with the husband comment! Also, my kids... I have a hard time saying no to stuff I know they would love (it's never expensive.. I always get deals but I just buy too much!) and Disney. When I'm in Disney, I feel like I might never return so what the heck... I might as well spend some more money! and then I come back. lol :confused3
 
I agree with the husband comment! Also, my kids... I have a hard time saying no to stuff I know they would love (it's never expensive.. I always get deals but I just buy too much!) and Disney. When I'm in Disney, I feel like I might never return so what the heck... I might as well spend some more money! and then I come back. lol :confused3
 
Vacation. We are trying to save money to build a house but I keep planning all these amazing vacations in my head...
 
Right now it's Pinterest! I have turned into a madwoman with all of the projects I'm seeing on there! I really had to reel myself in, because I had a half dozen different things going on at once.
I'll be sticking to only the recipe boards for awhile ~ at least I can do those within my budget, LOL!
 
Vacations - We love to vacation!

Online shopping- we live in the country and our small town doesn't have many stores. Des Moines is 50 minutes a way and I don't just run there by myself, it is usually all of us and they don't necessarily want to spend all day in stores. So I shop online which is a great convenience but I'm sure I've bought more than if I didn't have that available to me.
 














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