After over 450 posts, it would be impossible to add anything new. But I will just add my $0.02 and echo what many others have said. But as of right now, for the first time since 1972, we do not fall into any of the following categories:
- Just came back from WDW
- Will be going to WDW soon
- Are in the planning stages of our next trip to WDW
Is money the issue?
It's not really the money for us. If we skip going to WDW for a year, we just reallocate that vacation money elsewhere. It's still going to get spent.
Is FP+/MDE the issue?
Hard to put a finger on just one thing. As noted in posts above, Disney has engineered a system that more or less mandates that guests extend their stays (and stay out of the competitor's parks). An interesting strategy, but one that hurts families like ours who were not booking any vacation days in those other parks to begin with. Stretching out my vacation experience over more days just leaves me feeling like I am doing less now each day than I did before. I don't enjoy that. But also as noted above, a lot of this uneasiness will wash away by going at less crowded times. So perhaps we haven't reached a "hard line" in the sand of never going again, we have reached a "soft line" in the sand of never going again during crowded times. We are well past the point of taking the kid out of school, so we probably won't be back until she is in college. And even then, it may just be the wife and I unless the college calendar allows us to do a family vacation when crowds are low.
Is boredom the issue?
Perhaps this feeds into it. We have been to WDW a lot. We were always very conscious of the fact that a child at age 2 has a different experience than a child at age 4, who in turn has a different experience than a child at age 7...and so forth. So we wanted to capture all of those magical ages. But as the parents of a mid-teen, the need to go as often has dissipated. I think that big changes are coming, especially to DHS and hopefully Avatarland will be worth seeing. I can certainly see going back again in several years after there has been some significant expansion. But right now, as of December, 2014, there are fewer things to see and do now than there were in June of 2010. New Fantasyland got added. But more has been stripped away than added in that period of time. My "soft line" in the sand will wash away when there are new, exciting things to do and see. Again, that may be 4-5 years from now.
Is technology the issue?
Maybe. But this is a problem that isn't going to fix itself in 4 or 5 years. I hate that the world is now viewed from a screen held 18 inches from our collective eyes. I hate that when you "people watch" at WDW now, all you see are people staring at their phones. I hate that I have to micro-plan my vacation. It was bad enough having to make calls at 7:00 a.m. to get into CRT or the California Grill. But to have to go on line at midnight to secure spaces to ride rides that may not have standby lines again? While one might think that this feeds my anal-retentive vacation planning nature, it doesn't. It saddens me. I don't want to be tethered to technology when I am on vacation. A beach in the Virgin Islands starts to look more and more attractive.
Are hard ticket events the issue?
Somewhat. Disney seems to be dumbing down the "included in the price of admission" experience so that it can sell you what you used to get as part of your basic ticket. And then when I see reviews like Pete's on the Villains Unleashed event, it sours me all the more. I am not at all opposed to buying an upgraded experience. But it had better be an upgraded experience and not merely a replica of what I used to get before. And it had better last more than an hour if I am going to shell out another $300 for my family.
So there it is. No one thing puts me over the edge. I just don't operate like that. But unless I can go to WDW and visit without the need for apps to secure me ride space, and can complete a full day's itinerary like I am accustomed to, and do not have to pay exorbitant prices to gain access to that which I used to get at no extra cost, and unless there are new, updated rides that don't break down for hours at a time, I will find other ways to spend my vacation dollars.