thanks everyone for your responses...
Seems the policy is not strictly enforced...always...
Since may travelled sw...3 times...
1st time....no prob...she just turned 4...they announced
5..and under...mom and DH boarded with DD and I...
On the way home....it was announced 4 and under...
Next trip....5 and under.....but only parents could board with
the child....
Just my mom was with me. and dh...I didnt want to send her by herself....
so she stayed in line...
GET THIS ONE....when we were boarding.....(dh...17yrs older than me)
they stopped my DH....saying only parents could board
They thought....dh...and dm...were...together
They let my mom on....

But really gave DH....dirty looks...
He was pissed....Funny they didnt question my mom....
just dh....the guy who gave my hubby dirty looks....
came on the plane....dh made a point of telling him...
this is MY WIFE...AND DAUGHTER...THAT IS MY IN LAW...
He was embarresed...I laughted all the way to mco...
Last time flight in Jan....was literally half preboard...
The flight attendants....were like...OMG....this is still
preboard...I felt bad for the person who waited in
line A....for 2hrs....just to see 100 people waltz by him...
Anyway thanks again for everyones info..
Kerri