Now, Now, Now - let's tone down the rhetoric we are using such as "Condemn" and the like.
For people who have not observed this - there is no voice inflection or non verbal communication to interpret in electronic communication. It's very easy to get caught up in something that you may read as offensive - when in reality it isn't offensive and wasn't intended to be offensive, and yet so many people choose to be offended.
Never make the CHOICE to be offended - it is very off putting and just created more hassle, anger, and turmoil that should have been left at the door.
Always think to yourself - is this something that I would say to this individual if the communication/conversation were happened face to face? If you wouldn't say it face to face - then don't post it on Disboards.
Everyone is on the Budget Board because they like to save money, they like to budget, or they HAVE to save money or they HAVE to budget.
There are certain times when things have been said on the Budget Boards that I just have to shake my head over and wonder what the person was thinking when they were posting.
There is such a thing as being budget saavy - and then there is such a thing as just being downright CHEAP. What the budget saavy people haven't discovered is that the downright CHEAP folks mind their pennies - and what the downright CHEAP folks haven't discovered yet is that the Budget Saavy folks mind their dollars.
Based on my experience, the Downright CHEAP folks work hard for their money and really don't have a penny to waste. The Budget Saavy folks don't waste their time on pennies.
I have learned that time IS indeed more valuable than money in a lot of circumstances. People that would rather spend 3 extra hours to save $3.00 dollars haven't figured out that minimum wage is $7.00+ an hour.
I drive my wife crazy with shopping - I consider ALL of my options before taking the leap to purchase something. She would rather buy what she wants than spend a ton of time shopping. I go with my 'gut' feeling, and if I don't feel like it's time to buy - I don't. But that drives my wife crazy. She doesn't even want to shop if I'm not ready to buy. When it comes to buying - patience isn't her strong suite. She doesn't like it when I take the time to bargain/negotiate when appropriate. Negotiation makes her uncomfortable - I understand that - but it gives me a natural high!

So PLEASE - be civil - and remember that everyone is different - some people on the Budget Board are minding their pennies - others are minding their Dollars - and if you don't have something productive to add to the conversation in a friendly and civil manner - MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS!
Don't CHOOSE to offend someone - and don't CHOOSE to be offended.
I enjoy the Disboards too much to read through the petty crap and arguments that surface over things that are very simple.
This is the conclusion of my Public Service Announcement. Thank You!