Chef Mickey's on the first night.
Fireworks on the last night....either Wishes or Illuminations.
Trip to Marketplace for shopping mid-week every trip........we use this as a no-parks day to stretch our vacation without stretching our dollars.
Checking out other resorts and picking the next trip's.
Ride in the front of the monorail on the way to MK, first night before or after Chef Mickey's.
Crystal Palace for lunch on an MK day.
Certain attractions must be done.
Always have to do EMH one day in MK for Dumbo and Fantasyland.
I absolutely adore dressing my kids in similar style...........same movie, different characters................. same characters, different poses..........same color shirt, different characters/attractions...................switching color and trim with any characters (son wearing a gray shirt with Grumpy with white beard, son2 wearing white shirt with gray thumper.......same colors, but switching out the one emphasized and the accent). My kids are 7 years apart, so I waited a long time being able to coordinate........I only do it at Disney, Christmas and Easter.