I'll get into the back and forth of this thread later, but for now here are a few things I think about "Liberals" and "Conservatives":
Conservatives believe in imposing their morals on others, since it is the only "right" way to live.
Liberals believe in holding their morals to themselves, and acknowledge that not everyone believes exactly the same as they do.
Conservatives believe in government just small enough to make moral decisions for individuals, such as those on gay marriage.
Liberals believe in allowing individuals to live their life as they choose, including marrying someone of the same sex, if such is their natural preference.
Conservatives believe "America First" is something that should be respected by other countries at all times.
Liberals believe that other countries have their own interests, and only through negotiation can we arrive at mutually satisfactory endings.
Conservatives believe "they hate us for our freedoms" and other meaningless platitudes.
Liberals know that there are root causes for the world's problems, and treating the symptom without working to solve the root cause is a waste of time and resources.
Conservatives believe that stopping welfare and social security will somehow lead to a more prosperous society.
Liberals believe that not everybody is capable of pulling themselves up by the bootstraps, so help from the government is the least we - as a society - can do.
Conservatives believe that those born on third base have actually hit triples.
Liberals believe that even those that start with two strikes against them - born into poverty with little to no support structure to help them - deserve a chance to make something of themselves...but that requires
help.
Conservatives believe nation building is in our interests.
Liberals believe that it never works and will only lead to further problems.
Conservatives believe the free market solves everything.
Liberals believe that corporations work in their own interests, not in society's.
Conservatives believe science is something you can and should play politics with.
Liberals believe facts are facts and not up for debate.
Conservatives believe dissent is the equivalent of treason.
Liberals believe dissent is the duty of every citizen that disagrees with his or her government...just as the founding fathers did, for the most part.
Conservatives believe in simple answers.
Liberals believe that there are no simple answers. We do not live in a black and white world, for the most part. Very rarely is anything so cut-and-dried as 9/11.
There is plenty more, but those are a few of the key differences. I'm more than willing to discuss / defend any of those statements, so fire away.
(Oh, and btw Brenda...West Virginia - a traditionally very blue state until recently - has the distinction of sending a larger percentage of her population to the military in times of war than any other state in the union...so I'm afraid I will most certainly have to disagree with your statement about liberals in the military.)