This issue has been beat to death, and still beaten some more. It always amazes me the anger this topic can provoke, but that may be becaused I'm not faced with this situation personally and don't have to think about all the extra points 5+ people require to secure a 2 bedroom unit.
All families are different, and as such we need to respect what we all find as tolerable when we vacation. Personally, I don't like tripping over bodies in a hotel room and would find 5 people in a one bedroom very hard to take. (I like everything put away and everything in its assigned place....)
That said, Kids are little people and it's very easy to have a small child sleep with the parents in that big old king size bed. I know we often joke that we could rent out the other half of that bed when we are there. 3 kids in a queen size sleeper probably isn't a stretch either. I'm sure everyone knows that once teenagers come into the equation none of these type of sleeping arrangements work anyway because they will be pushing for more privacy too, and that extra bath will be a critcal consideration..lol!!
So..my two cents, for what it's worth, is live and let live. Every person who has signed their DVC contract knows the stated occupancy limits. How they choose to manange that is really up to them and how they work it out with member services. As far as wear and tear on the resort etc...I know that we never come close to the occupancy limits..2 of us always in a 1 bedroom, if we bring along another couple..it's a 2 bedroom. I'm sure there are many folks just like us who vacation at the same time a family with 5 wants to use a 1 bedroom. It all evens out in the end.
Now, I would start to have a problem if a family of 6 or 7 tried to squeeze into a one bedroom, but again, I'm not the judge and jury..so it's really none of my business. I sure Disney and DVC is well aware of how the rooms are being used. If we are concerned about this issue, we have the right to write a letter to the powers that be and express our concerns. I would think that would be more constructive than bickering about this on this board. Besides, flickfan asked a simple question.....
That's my two cents...I'll get off my soap box now!