Ducky4Disney said:
People who judge other people by thier looks and body composition, that irks me. I don't understand people who go to parks and are rather scantily clad, whether they're big, small, short, tan, pale, pimply, or whatever. To say that if you're thin and beautiful it's OK, but if you're overwieght and average, it's not OK - I don't agree.
D4D
I certainly agree that there are distasteful dressers in all shapes and sizes. And I don't really let it bother me, more often I find it a little humorous, "Could that person really think that outfit is becoming on them? Am I that out of touch?" More what I meant though was that if someone has clearly been making an effort to take care of their body, and they want to show it off a little, then I'm willing to cut them a little slack - and thus the next item in my list, which was meant as a joke. Sorry, if I didn't make that clear enough.
Going to Disney does make me worry for the health of the people in my country though. Taking care of your body is a difficult thing to do, and I know there are people who have various legitimate disabilities, and I would never say anything rude, but at the end of the day, my overall impression is that there are way too many Americans who are in the very heavy category, and it makes me a little sad for us all. I wish

I could find a way to show some of them how much better they would feel if they lost a few pounds.

I also have a story that involves really rude people I encountered in Orlando. It happens to involve two heavy set women. Let me see if I can tell the story well. I was at a store buying something, my stroller was right next to me, and I was getting my money out.
Trying to shuffle mercahdise, a stroller, and navigating through the crowds and the many display cases in the store, I wasn't able to get my credit card out ahead of time. A large woman comes by, and in a rude voice says, "ExCUSE me!" I was baffled. Was she talking to me? Clearly, I was AT the register, in the middle of a transaction. Where was she trying to go? There were display cases blocking the area around me - not a great layout for the store, but certainly not my fault. What could I possibly be doing to annoy her? The stroller was right next to me. I didn't know what to say, I was getting my wallet out as quickly as I could.
Before I could say anything, or otherwise react - her very fat friend (excuse me, but she was also way too wide to fit into this area) MOVED my stoller - WITH CHILD IN IT - about ten feet away from me through the crowded store!! I was aghast, like a deer in the headlights! Then the first woman glared as she walked through the area her friend had just cleared. I just couldn't believe anyone would do this instead of going around the display cases! They both had miserable looks on their faces. I really wish I had known what to say to them.
It kind of bothers me almost anytime strangers touch my child. I certainly don't mind someone shaking her hand or trying to protect her or something, but I've had complete strangers (usually women) walk right up and pick her up, try to kiss her, tell their kids to kiss her, put their hands right on her cheeks- without consulting me first. Yuck! Why would anyone feel that this was acceptable?