Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. Dr. Seuss
I also really love this to live by: Whatever you are be a good one. It's by Abraham Lincoln.
Anyway, generally I try my best to be a good person but I don't let that get in the way of saying what I think about something. I also try to live my life to the fullest and do things that I enjoy and that make me happy. I also believe you can't say "I love you" enough and never miss an opportunity to say it.