I stopped donating to my college when they got pushy. I got a call the one year stating I had given $X the last few years and would I consider upping it to $Y that year since I was further out of college. I explained I recently had a job loss and that no donation was in the budget at that point, but I would consider again when I had a new job and was back in a better place financially. Despite that, they kept pushing for a higher donation right on that call. I told them i was never donating again because of that. Now I just toss the mail and ignore their calls. Still annoys me. Oh and some of the mail now asks me to be sure I put the school in my will --- yeah, that is not happening. The 4 years tuition was all they were owed.