Our family has created a new tradition of getting together for a breakfast meal. Mom will do the ham, eggs, sausage gravy & biscuits, others bring breads, bagels, doughnuts, there's fresh fruit, etc. It's a lot less stress than the "BIG" meal--fewer leftovers for Mom when we all scatter to the wind--and we have all day to visit rather than cooking and cleaning then rushing back home on a Sunday.
I live a fair distance from home, the kids have school the next day, my brother usually has to head to work on Sunday evenings and my sister just goes to bed early because she works very early. We will head home on Saturday a.m. and have a couple of days to share. It has been a good, new tradition for us!