I have no idea what to do about Mother's Day, and was actually wanting some advice.
I work full time (M-Th). On the Friday before, I have to go shopping and get the house ready b/c my DD's 10th bday party is on Saturday, the day before Mother's Day. My mom will be spending that day here, of course. That Saturday is the only day that would work for us to have the party- too much other stuff going on with the end of the school year.
But what about Sunday, Mother's Day itself? She lives about 30 miles away. I know that we should just go up there to see her. But I also know that the house will be disaster after the birthday party, and I'll need some time to cleanup. I have to go back to work on Monday. I can't ask her to drive down here again (she doesn't have the gas money). I also teach children's Sunday School, so I must go to church that day. Couple that with the fact that I have a bad back (seriously, I've had 2 back surgeries, and need a 3rd one for a 3rd herniated disc), I don't know what to do without either killing myself trying to make everyone happy, or hurting her feelings if we celebrate Mother's Day another day.
Anyway, what would you do? Thanks!