Dad achieved the rank of Colonel in the Army and after he retired became the dean of local community college, so I would rate him as successful. My mother worked before she married including traveling around during World War II showing other women how to make do with the limited supplies of goods available. After she married and had the four of us, she had little time for work outside of the house, though she did do a lot with the church and the woman's club, so I would rate her as successful as well. They are both gone now.