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lvs_eeyore said:Gee it's so nice to know that your friends think you are a psyche case in need of a shrink because you have a little stress in your life. Hmmmm I guess everyone should be going to a shrink then. Something bothers me I vent and its over. I dont harbor on things. Its part of why I vent it out to get rid of it. I will not however do it on this thread ever again. Ive been there done that with the therapy thing. I know when I need it and I know when I dont and I know all too well how they can screw your life up completely like they did me in 1991. And yes I have seen therapists since then. I am also NOT looking for a medical problem to cover up my so called need for a shrink. I HAVE a proven medical problem confirmed by two doctors. Even the pulmonologist said when I first showed him the first test results that it looked like I would be on oxygen at night. Yall have a right to voice your opinion but I also have the right not to agree with your opinion. Let's just DROP this whole subject. I am VERY sorry I even posted about it to begin with. I will not vent again....what you will get from me is support, caring, and happy happy joy joy posts. I will support others but will not ask for support for myself.
I need to go make dinner. I might be back later unless I go to bed early tonight.
helenabear said:Not a day... I had this long post written out and because my connection is crap, I lost it. Basically it said that I really didn't care to be warned about this thread just minutes after I logged on for the first time since this afternoon. I have had one hell of a day trying to get so much done in such a short time, that I didn't need this. Not pointing fingers here at all, but I need to say this...
We ARE friends here... and friends do NOT always agree with each other. There is NOTHING wrong with that, as we are all different people with different thoughts and ideas. Trust me, when I vent, I hear everything from sympathy to those who try to put a positive spin on it for me. Some also tell me what I did wrong because they see it as something I can grow from. That is FINE with me! As I said a friend tells the truth as they see it. It is never done out of any kind of bad feelings, but done out of LOVE!
I have seen friends get in arguments before over similar things and split groups apart... and I will be DAMNED if I see this happen again! Yes, we can come here to vent... and even if I give an opinion that isn't popular, I am not saying it to be mean at all... and I doubt anyone really ever is! Y'all are too good for anything like that!
Yeah, I'm a bit cranky, but dang it y'all, I don't want to deal with this again... we are all different people, from different areas, walks of lives, and even generations. But still we found each other and there is honest love and respect for one another. A difference of opinion is always said to help, not to hurt, so DO NOT ever take it that way!
I am not closing this thread tonight because I don't have the time or energy to wait up for this... I will attempt to find time tomorrow or Sunday to do it (I am so sorry life got in teh way last weekend and this past week). But for the love of God, just remember no one is here to hurt you... just support and help you in addition to having fun and enjoying life together.
Good night y'all!