pwdebbie
DIS Veteran
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- Jun 20, 2007
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Hi
So after packing the pounds back on, it's time to buckle down and take them off. I moved a few months ago so I needed to find a new meeting place. I went to one tonight but I didn't like the time (5:45pm) and I wasn't thrilled with the leader. She had no oompf. I like oompf. That's what I need. She also didn't go through and recognize people's weight losses. I like that part and feel it's very motivated. Plus I find there is something just encouraging when you get to share that news with the other members. This meeting place was just down the road a few miles. There's another meeting place about 1/2 hour away and at a much better time. Can I just switch? Is it ok for me to pop into that meeting to check it out and see if I like it better? What is the protocol? LOL
I think the leader makes all the difference. Our first leader was ok, but I definitely felt like I was attending a meeting. The second leader (and the one we have stuck with) is amazing. She has a lot of energy and everyone really participates in the meeting. In fact, when she was away for several weeks and another leader came in, the meetings had a whole different feel, even though the same people were attending, so that just showed me that the leader really does set the tone. So I don't think there would be a problem with trying out different meetings and find the one that fits your personality and expectations.

Have been lurking for awhile and finally took the plunge last week. I'm looking at my 45th bday in July and have at least 75lbs to lose. I have tried so many other "diets" with some success so I know I can take the weight off, but always.... ALWAYS put the weight back on. I have "survived" this first week with no problem... except DH broke my scale so I'm starting over with a new scale at tomorrow's weigh in. My biggest issue... I hate to exercise. I know it is a must, but my joints hurt so bad... I know that will improve with the weight coming off so I just need to take it one day at a time.

