Well, robinb, since you asked
The theme for the week was Taking "Me" Time (i think that was what it was? may not have the actual verbage correct), and I have spoken with my leader since I joined WW about how I knew this time was finally "it", that I was done with doing the weight loss dance two steps forward and three steps back.
What happened for me, was that I had a conversation with my family in September about 3 things I needed to get done by Thanksgiving, in order for our holiday season to be done the way we like it to be. I told them I knew we were busy with work, school, extra stuff, scouts, blah blah blah, but these 3 things HAD TO be done, or the things that made the holiday season "it" for us, would not happen, and everyone would be looking at me come the holidays and questioning why it wasn't like it normally was.
Well, those things didn't happen. It was only important to me. Even though I tried to carve out the time to get them done, something else for someone else always had to come first, and I came last.
Then, there were a few things that were very important to me that I do, that I expressed to them were important to me, and while my family agreed that I should do them, when the time came, everyone else's needs and wants came before mine.
So I threw down.
I reached my breaking point, I was done with being low man on the totem pole. I was sick of teaching my daughters that they could do whatever they like with their time until they became a mom, and then they could only do for others and not themselves. I was tired of showing my son that it was acceptable to have a wife that felt less than important, as long as everything else in his life was okay. I was done with being disappointed with my husband because I was disappointed with myself. I sat my family down, told them that 2011 was going to be the year of ME, and that from now on I was putting my own needs first so I could better meet their needs.
And, the sun still came up in the morning. And, the world kept on rotating. No one stopped breathing in and out.
In our super tight budget, I found the money to pay for a WW monthly pass. I found out where ALL the meetings within an hours drive of me were, so I would never have to miss one. I found a meeting in my area that had a leader that I really connected with - which took a few tries. And, I made it work in my family, because I was not willing for it to not. I knew really, really well what did not work for me to get healthy, so I made sure to do things differently. I was not willing to spend my back 40 in an unhealthy body that I did not like and could not accomplish what I wanted of it.
And so, that's the numb and jist of what I shared. I insisted that I was important, made it happen, and am getting back so much that I didn't even know I was missing.