wedding

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Coffee... Is my worst enemy... But is also that little guilty pleasure that I get.

It's pretty terrible because at times I feel like a smoker. When I drink the coffee, I have to brush my teeth and spray my mouth or chew gum to hide it from Vinnie.

See, when all those things with the heart started, the doctor told me NO CAFFEINE. Nothing. No chocolate etc. The reason? Because it is inducing my anxiety caused from this wild wedding...

But what do I do? Without it I am falling asleep at my desk...Unable to sing"The verb song" to the children!

With it, I am running around the classroom chanting the "Revolution " song...

But then it all comes to an end. Where right now, the coffee is wearing off, And I have a flutter in my chest. My anxiety is starting.

I started thinking about how many days left for the wedding, and although its a little bit to get done, its GETTING it done that seems to worry me... That "What if" feeling!

Last night, vinnie and I were putting together the chest for the front of our bed we had bought. We splurged on our bed furniture because we figured when we have a housei t will be the guest bedroom furniture, but putting together solid wood is pretty hard.

So, naturally I was really tired today. I had to make tons of calls to the videographer to finally book it only for the ceremony, and so once it was done, I starte dto think....

And of course, thewhole "We could have done this in disney" started. I shouldn't have had the coffee... bad bad coffee. But I did.

So, thanks to the coffe causing anxiety, I began to look online and found some killer sales.... and spent quite a bit of money on honeymoon clothes (WE NEED thisright? Its part of the wedding budget isnt it?)

Now, I am sitting here because I am tired

Okay well, that was my random rant. I have to go order my seashells now and the sand dollars!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Name That Destination!
Okay, so, I am posting this on my PTR- A semi contest....

I want a destination. Last year we went around the world and got candy from each place.... But this year I want something different... I thought I would leave it to you guys to decide: I will put a poll with the top four!

You Choose Our Destination!

 

[tiggersam00]

Ok 1st off I love a good contest, I will have to put my thinking cap on for this one...

2nd coffee is my friend/enemy as well... I am addicted but I cannot stop... I have a way for you to channel your energy though... ready for this one Jen!

Plan our 11/2010 trip! You can come up with things we can do, places to eat, all that fun stuff! Where to stay... etc etc. It's the perfect distraction! And it will get the disney fun rolling!

Don't stress about your wedding girl, it will be beautiful and you are doing so much for it that even if you stopped right now it would still be amazing! Remember you can always come visit me if you get too stressed lol!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Ok 1st off I love a good contest, I will have to put my thinking cap on for this one...

2nd coffee is my friend/enemy as well... I am addicted but I cannot stop... I have a way for you to channel your energy though... ready for this one Jen!

Plan our 11/2010 trip! You can come up with things we can do, places to eat, all that fun stuff! Where to stay... etc etc. It's the perfect distraction! And it will get the disney fun rolling!

Don't stress about your wedding girl, it will be beautiful and you are doing so much for it that even if you stopped right now it would still be amazing! Remember you can always come visit me if you get too stressed lol!

I KNOW!
I am going to have to begin and start thinking about this! Being that its a four day weekend maybe I'll only have to take one day and pray the plane gets there in time. I know November has blackout dates so I am hoping we can stay at the pop or one of those for uber cheap! It would be awesome!

If I mention this to vin he may have a nervous breakdown though lol..."MORE MONEY?" how can we pass up disney? I guess it will all depend if we make back all this money we have spent for the honeymoon?

Other than that yes, vin and I will have to take a trip to MA soon. Are you far out? I am dying to take him out there.

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Dis Girls Vaca Planning begins

Okay so, if we decided to go for the holiday weekend, it would be: (this can change sine its the 09 prices)

Thurs-Sunday Nov 11-14
Two Adults No children (Unless one of us changes this)

Disney's All-Star Music Resort
Total: $1,088.62 With Park hopper waterfun and more
Minus 50 for standard room...

HOWEVER

If we wanted to stay somewhere more secluded and be able to party until 1am....

Disney's Caribbean Beach Resort
Total: $1,255.60 With parkhopper waterfun and more option

So heres a start. ITs really not that expensive and all we would have to do is worry about food... we usually send over cereal and hummus and things like that when we go for breakfast and lunch and snacks im sure you guys can do the same !

 

[figmentfan814]

Your talk about coffee reminds me how I am with Diet Coke. I have to have one first thing in the morning and I drink it all day, so I know exactly what you mane Its been a few days since I checked in on your PJ. Your favors turned out wonderful; I love how they're all packaged up for your guests.

I just responded to your contest on the other thread too

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Your talk about coffee reminds me how I am with Diet Coke. I have to have one first thing in the morning and I drink it all day, so I know exactly what you mane Its been a few days since I checked in on your PJ. Your favors turned out wonderful; I love how they're all packaged up for your guests.

I just responded to your contest on the other thread too

Hey you! Thank you for your kind words!!! I really want to spoil my guests.... we really are lucky to have such an amazing family!

I will go check out the other post now!

 

[malibustacey]

I am the same with coffee too- i get crazy- i actually talk crap sometimes when i have a huge coffee intake!! I have tried to switch to tea (haah i know you americans laugh about English tea!! hehe) but the only thing is with that is that i have to have 2 spoons of sugar with it!

Its understandable that you are stressed a bit about the wedding, i remember reading on a wedding website where it gave the advice to make sure you and your partner make sure to have some fun together and relaxing together and going out together so you can spend time having fun and not thinking about the wedding, to ease the stress. Like Sam said, your wedding will be amazing, there is NO DOUBT about it, you may think you have a lot to do, then perhaps you could do a little time table/ planner so you dont have to do it all in one go, and put the stress of doing all the things at once.

And i cant belive this dis meet! It'd be so great if it did happen! im defi keeping my fingers crossed! It will be so fun!

Remember Jen, dont work yourself too hard because we dont want a stressed brideszilla Jen! x

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

I know! But this disbride meet is making me feel so so much better

BY THE WAY

We got our toilet bowl! lmao lololol

 

[pink_tink8i8]

I love your favor boxes, you did such a great job!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

I love your favor boxes, you did such a great job!

Thank you hun!

 

[tinks_1989]

Jenny,

well all I can say is wow! and you need to take a break and rest do you ever stop you have done so much and you certainly are the hostess with the mostest

I love your favours they look so proffesional they look like you paid a load of $$$'s on them well done you are very creative you must reliefed to have checked that off your list as well

I love you aisle runner monogram I cant believe you do all this im going to have to get practicing lol I am no good at any of this i guess i could hire you lol i know you would do better then me

any way keep up the good work but may be have a nice bubble bath and relax you deserve it you need it

love every thing x x x

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Sand Ceremony Wording

I thought I would share the ceremony wording that my Maid of Honor will be saying at our reception:

Vinnie and Jen, may your love always be as constant as the never-ending waves, flowing endlessly from the depths f the sea.

Just as there will never be a morning without the ocean’s flow, there will never be a day without your love for each other.
Earlier today, you sealed your relationship by giving and receiving of rings.

For those who do not know, Vinnie and jen have chosen to signify the joining of their separate lives today infront of all their family and friends by a sand ceremony.
This beautiful union is symbolized through the combining of these two individual jars of sand
The first bottle represents you , Jen, and all that you were, all that you are, and all that you will ever be, and the other representing you, Vinnie, and all that you are were and all that you are, and all that you will ever be.

In the third bottle, you will see a neutral color of sand. This sand represents their new beginning as husband and wife.

As the couple combines the two bottles, the sand intertwines and can never be separated, which is the same for your marriage, held together by love.

I would like to ask Vinnie and Jen to begin to now combine their separate lives with their new beginning.
The DJ will then take the table away and ask for us to join together for our first dance on the dance floor
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[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Jenny,

well all I can say is wow! and you need to take a break and rest do you ever stop you have done so much and you certainly are the hostess with the mostest

I love your favours they look so proffesional they look like you paid a load of $$$'s on them well done you are very creative you must reliefed to have checked that off your list as well

I love you aisle runner monogram I cant believe you do all this im going to have to get practicing lol I am no good at any of this i guess i could hire you lol i know you would do better then me

any way keep up the good work but may be have a nice bubble bath and relax you deserve it you need it

love every thing x x x

Awww thank you so much sweetheart!
When the time comes let me know what you need help with! I will give major picture help if you want!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Another Dilemma...

But this one is a big one that I have been avoiding...majorly... and I mean majorly...

My dad and I were never that close. Since I moved out we have become closer.... so... the big...

Father Daughter Dance. This would mean that vinnie would have to do a mother son dance and he doesnt want to...

So... Here is the question (My DJ called this is why I am asking)

WHAT DO I DO? I was going to invite the entire family up to dance together for the first time as a family....

But now, after seeing how involved my father has become in the wedding...
I am thinking I should do a father daughter dance...

If I do this, I do not want it to be a crazy mushy song.

I am not sure what to do. Perhaps we can ask both the father of the bride and mother of the groom to come up after our first dance to dance with us? To kill two birds with one stone?

But what song? I know you gals will help me... I am lost

 

[malibustacey]

that wording for the sand ceremony is really lovely.

I am a bit unsure about about the songs- i really dont want to do a father daughter dance because i dont know my dad that well- well i only lived with him when uptil i was 5 and thats it, so its a bit wierd.

Its a good idea to have both songs at the same time- i think i may do that because like you said- get it over and done with together!

Now the songs, i havent got a clue what to suggest to you. I might go with something from Springsteen / or an oldie song .. but im not sure, i get what you mean when you dont want it to be a mushy song- but how about a song that builds up with a big ending (you know when its slow then gets lively at the end)- that way, at the end of the song, you could invite everyone up too?

Im not sure... i could suggest what song if you gave a list to choose from hehee!!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

Thank you Stace...
What about "What a wonderful world" by louis armstrong for both?

 

[malibustacey]

oooh yeah thats a nice song, not mushy but a good slowish song!

you got me singing now!!

 

[Mrsdisneyb2b]

oooh yeah thats a nice song, not mushy but a good slowish song!

you got me singing now!!

Thats my whole secret agenda!

 

[malibustacey]

have you got any other ideas for songs? Im just wondering because we dont really have the whole father daughter / son mother and all those dances in the UK...! wierd eh!