mafibisha
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Ok, its been awhile since we were married (15 years!) and I haven't been to a wedding shower in awhile.
This shower is being given by the brides mother, what is up with that? Is that something new?
Or it is a regional thing where its done some places and not others?
It was always considered a huge no-no, in poor taste in polite society when I was growing up and getting married. The brides mom may have planned or payed for it but a cousin, sister in law or friend was named on the invitation as the hostess. (holding breath here as I have 3 DDs so
!)
Also, what do you guys spend on a gift if you're also going the wedding? I realize it depends on how close you are and if the wedding is local or out of town.
Feedback anyone?
This shower is being given by the brides mother, what is up with that? Is that something new?
Or it is a regional thing where its done some places and not others?
It was always considered a huge no-no, in poor taste in polite society when I was growing up and getting married. The brides mom may have planned or payed for it but a cousin, sister in law or friend was named on the invitation as the hostess. (holding breath here as I have 3 DDs so

Also, what do you guys spend on a gift if you're also going the wedding? I realize it depends on how close you are and if the wedding is local or out of town.
Feedback anyone?