the prices on
www.yourfairytale.com are pretty accurate. I will give you the prices that I have from a package I just got from Disney about a month ago.
I am doing a custom wedding so if you are doing an intimate the prices may differ. Also these prices do not include tax or gratuity.
Minimum for wedding (M-TH) are $7500 (F-Sun) $10k
Food and beverage minimum (prior to 2pm) $75/person (after 2pm) $100/person.
Florida Marriage license is $88.50
Wedding location wedding pavilion $2200 other locations $1200
Transporation Horse and Landua Coach $1500 (2hrs), GLass Coach $2500 (2hrs includes horses and 3 footman), Vintage Cars $540 and up (3 hrs) Charter bus $78/hr (min 5 hrs), Limo $73/hr (min 3 hrs)
Photography 6hr package $2420; 8 hr pack $3320; $10 hr pack $4475 (these are all min)
Flowers
These are the starting price
bride bouquet $250
Bridesmaid/Maid of honor $125
Flower girl $45
Mother Corsage $30
Tossable bouquet $35
There is a price of more flowers but here are the basics.
Then prices a for entertainment and decor and cartering but I think you have all this info if you have looked at yourfairytale.
I don't know about tea parties or welcoming parties because they don't directly relate to the wedding. I know a lot of people do the fantasmic dessert party and teas in Epcot.
One thing to keep in mind is that you must meet a room min depending on the number of guests that you have at the wedding. If you meet the min then you get a free room on your honeymoon night. If you do not meet the min and the contract was not altered prior to signing it then you will be responsible to pay for the nights that were not used. For example if you 30 guests-you would have to guarantee 25 nights at Disney if your guests only stay for 23 nights then you would have to pay for 2 nights that were not used.
Since both of you are not getting married to 2006 the prices may change slightly but this should get you started.
Good luck