We were invited to the wedding of an acquaintance, to whom we haven't spoken in several years. She used to work with my husband, but I was never really friends with her. We went out a few times with the group from work.
We can't go to her wedding because it's the same day as our anniversary, it's out of town and I'll be 9 months pregnant. We didn't really want to go anyway since we haven't seen her in years and weren't that close.
So, my question is should we still have to send a gift? If she had attended our wedding, I would most definitely send a gift, but we didn't know her then. Is if fine to just send our regrets with no other ackowledement of her wedding. Could we send a card without a gift just to let her know we're thinking of her? We can't really afford a gift right now, especially for someone we probably won't see again.
We can't go to her wedding because it's the same day as our anniversary, it's out of town and I'll be 9 months pregnant. We didn't really want to go anyway since we haven't seen her in years and weren't that close.
So, my question is should we still have to send a gift? If she had attended our wedding, I would most definitely send a gift, but we didn't know her then. Is if fine to just send our regrets with no other ackowledement of her wedding. Could we send a card without a gift just to let her know we're thinking of her? We can't really afford a gift right now, especially for someone we probably won't see again.
