You know, I know you said you didn't want to spend a lot of money on a Disney wedding for 10 people, but have you actually called and spoken tot hem about it? I dthink they are pretty helpful in planning something within budget.
Once when we were there, a wedding was taking place on the gazebo on the Boardwalk, overlooking the water...you know, the one on your left as you are walking towards Epcot. It was taking place at dusk, and it was really very lovely, with the lights just coming on around the Boardwalk etc. It was a very intimate wedding...there looked to be about 15 people there, and Mickey and Minnie as guests, all dressed up in formal wear. I guess my point is that from what I understand, they'll do a lot of different types of weddings, not just the chapel with the Cinderella coach thing. Did you ever think about a beach wedding at the Poly????