Thanks for all the info. Wedding isn't until Jan/2010 so I have a while. DD hasn't decided if she wants a WDW wedding or not. I'm leaning that way, mainly because we won't have to have some family members there, but if we have the wedding at home, we'll have to invite them. Some of dh's family think they're better than us, even though they REALLY are not. And what gets me the most, they call themselves christians and are at church every time the door opens, but then look down on us. But the funny thing is, we live in a nicer home and community than they do.But anyway, I hope I'm not sounding mean or selfish,but I don't want to have to share this special day with them.