You know what works beautifully? Just get your eyelashes dyed before Disney. No worries, you wake up beautiful, you swim and your beautiful, you "glow" buckets and you're beautiful. And...if you're like me and have eyelashes that won't curl for diddly, get them permed too! It's gorgeous, seriously. (Yes, they put itsy bitsy little curlers on your eyelashes. It's bizarre and good for a laugh as well and looks incredible.)
Then if you go out for a dinner, you can put mascara on as well for a dramatic look.
For lips, go with Max Factor Lipfinity, a two step process wherein you put the color which absorbs into your very molecules, beats up existing pigmentation, and replaces it. Kind of like Pod People for lips. Then add the moisturizer or your lips will look like you've been wandering in the Gobi for 3 days. And it will stay through eating, drinking, kissing, brushing teeth, and biting your lip at the TOT.