We talk too much....

[lilpixiebabe101]

Yay for a mod!! Which one are y'all looking at?



Sorry....I got home and got on a cleaning kick. And then I started baking. Martha Stewart much?



what's wrong with it?

Either the Poly or the Contemporary

hmmm.... I think I'm rubbing off on Carla with the cleaning kick

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

This might be a weird question you guys, but do y'all and your DH's ever just spend so much time together for a while that y'all get bored with each other even if it's just for a little bit?

 

[cherbear]

Either the Poly or the Contemporary

hmmm.... I think I'm rubbing off on Carla with the cleaning kick

oh you're looking at Deluxe then!!!!!

 

[cherbear]

This might be a weird question you guys, but do y'all and your DH's ever just spend so much time together for a while that y'all get bored with each other even if it's just for a little bit?

that happens to everyone at some point. Of course that's not the case with mine because we see each other less than 25 hours total during the average week.

 

[cherbear]

that happens to everyone at some point. Of course that's not the case with mine because we see each other less than 25 hours total during the average week.

waking hours I mean

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

waking hours I mean

us too. We see each other for 30 mins when I take lunch to bring him to work. Then if he gets off at 6 we can spend a few hours together (but he's always playing his games and I'm doing my things) or if he closes and doesn't get off till midnight, yeah i sit up at his work, but that's not us spending time together.

It's not that either of us is bored in general, its being bored in um... other "situations" because apparently we spend too much time together.

 

[cherbear]

mine works 6 days a week. bout 70 hours. his 12 hour days are on the days that I'm OFF. I can't visit him for lunch there either.

He works so much he gets home at 6 and is usually asleep by 9 on the weekends....many times, before then. His 2nd job isn't supposed to make him close during the week, but they do. Next week he closes 3 days. It's RIDICULOUS. His schedule is opposite mine.

Just be glad Buddy doesn't work that much...it sucks.

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

mine works 6 days a week. bout 70 hours. his 12 hour days are on the days that I'm OFF. I can't visit him for lunch there either.

He works so much he gets home at 6 and is usually asleep by 9 on the weekends....many times, before then. His 2nd job isn't supposed to make him close during the week, but they do. Next week he closes 3 days. It's RIDICULOUS. His schedule is opposite mine.

Just be glad Buddy doesn't work that much...it sucks.

He works about 50, and just like y'all we're usually opposite. He sleeps while I'm at work, then when he's at work I've got stuff I've gotta take care of at the house.

We didn't go to sleep until 2 last night, and I pretty much cried for two hours on and off last night, so I'm exhuasted today and my eyes are killing me

 

[team weasel]

I'm back. Looks like I may have dodged the bullet - so far.

Hopefully, I can deliver most of the training via video conference. Whew.

Ash - You are probably just in a rut. You and Buddy have been together for a while. Just do your reserach and find a way to spice things up.

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

I'm back. Looks like I may have dodged the bullet - so far.

Hopefully, I can deliver most of the training via video conference. Whew.

Ash - You are probably just in a rut. You and Buddy have been together for a while. Just do your reserach and find a way to spice things up.

Hopefully you can keep dodging, since you really don't seem like you wanna go!

Thanks. It just makes me feel bad, like he's tired of me already and we haven't even actually gotten married yet.

 

[Leger13]

Either the Poly or the Contemporary

hmmm.... I think I'm rubbing off on Carla with the cleaning kick

ahhh those are deluxe. Sweet!!

This might be a weird question you guys, but do y'all and your DH's ever just spend so much time together for a while that y'all get bored with each other even if it's just for a little bit?

Yes, and I read your other posts too back and forth with Cheri...Chris and I used to work total opposite schedules too. Him at night and me during the day. And he would work weekends. Then when he was off he'd still sleep during the day while I was awake and then be awake at night. It sucks to be on total opposite schedules but y'all will work through it. Just when you are together make sure to make that time special. Make a point to go out and do something together instead of sit around at the house. Do a date night or something. Like Dianna said, you could do some research online to figure out how to "spice" things back up.

I'm back. Looks like I may have dodged the bullet - so far.

Hopefully, I can deliver most of the training via video conference. Whew.

Ash - You are probably just in a rut. You and Buddy have been together for a while. Just do your reserach and find a way to spice things up.

glad you were able to dodge the bullet.

Hope you can do video conference training instead of moving. That's such a huge thing for them to ask you.

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

Yes, and I read your other posts too back and forth with Cheri...Chris and I used to work total opposite schedules too. Him at night and me during the day. And he would work weekends. Then when he was off he'd still sleep during the day while I was awake and then be awake at night. It sucks to be on total opposite schedules but y'all will work through it. Just when you are together make sure to make that time special. Make a point to go out and do something together instead of sit around at the house. Do a date night or something. Like Dianna said, you could do some research online to figure out how to "spice" things back up.

But see, he thinks we spend too much time together. He says he wants me to start actually hanging out with just my girlfriends sometimes and him hanging out with just the guys. Normally were either always together, or with another couple. He says he doesn't have time to "miss" me.

 

[Leger13]

But see, he thinks we spend too much time together. He says he wants me to start actually hanging out with just my girlfriends sometimes and him hanging out with just the guys. Normally were either always together, or with another couple. He says he doesn't have time to "miss" me.

hmmm....I've never been hit with that one by Chris. Not sure how I would respond to that.....I know I would be a bit ticked though.

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

hmmm....I've never been hit with that one by Chris. Not sure how I would respond to that.....I know I would be a bit ticked though.

Yeah. I was. I'm thinking in my head " I'm sorry. Sitting in two different rooms of the house all evening is not spending time together. I personally don't think we spend enough time together." But I didn't wanna make it worse.

 

[Leger13]

Yeah. I was. I'm thinking in my head " I'm sorry. Sitting in two different rooms of the house all evening is not spending time together. I personally don't think we spend enough time together." But I didn't wanna make it worse.

It's being around each other but it's not "quality" time. I understand not wanting to make it worse though. I probably would have just let it go for the time being too until I could come up with some good suggestions to make things work better. Just give it some time, figure things out in your head and then try to talk to him about it. Hopefully everything will work out

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

It's being around each other but it's not "quality" time. I understand not wanting to make it worse though. I probably would have just let it go for the time being too until I could come up with some good suggestions to make things work better. Just give it some time, figure things out in your head and then try to talk to him about it. Hopefully everything will work out

We're going to start trying to hang out apart like him with his guys, my with my girls once every two weeks or so, and see if we "miss" each other more.

 

[cherbear]

Dianna, hope you keep dodgin' that bullet!

 

[Leger13]

We're going to start trying to hang out apart like him with his guys, my with my girls once every two weeks or so, and see if we "miss" each other more.

so are you feeling this way too? do you think you don't have enough time to miss him?

 

[lilpixiebabe101]

so are you feeling this way too? do you think you don't have enough time to miss him?

I guess every now and then, but not usually. I agree that we need to spend time with other people, but it's just easier to spend time with other couples alot of the time, then to each go our seperate ways to hang out with people because he freaks out about me being around other guys, and I freak out about him being a round other girls. So we stress when were apart anyway.

 

[Leger13]

I guess every now and then, but not usually. I agree that we need to spend time with other people, but it's just easier to spend time with other couples alot of the time, then to each go our seperate ways to hang out with people because he freaks out about me being around other guys, and I freak out about him being a round other girls. So we stress when were apart anyway.

yeah, normally spending time with other couples is the better thing to do. Maybe you could suggest having a couple over to y'alls house and you and the girl do something together while he and the guy play video games or something. So you're still doing something separate but you don't have to be stressed about the jealousy thing.