MichiganMomto4
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I will try to make this brief but it won't be easy.
We were in Disney for a dance competition (for my daughter, not me) so there were a lot of us with the team although everyone mostly did their own thing when there were no dance obligations. Way back months ago I had scored an ADR at Cali Grill for the 4th fireworks. I passed on that information to others and some families also chose to make their own ADRs. Because of the credit card policy at that restaurant, no one wanted to take responsibility for a huge ADR. Anyway, so it turned out that 6 families had seperate ADRs within 15-20 minutes of each other. We never linked these ADRs in any way and Disney had no way of knowing that we all knew each other.
Fast forward to the evening of the 4th. We all arrived early to go up to the observation deck to watch the fireworks. At the 2nd floor desk we all checked in separately for our respective ADRs and were each given a buzzer and told we could go up to watch the fireworks but our tables wouldn't be ready until our ADR times. Totally expected and acceptable. The elevator operator check our ADR confirmations given to us at check in and takes us up (not all together as we were a large group). We go up, we watch the fireworks (which were Absolutely Amazing!!!) and linger around inside and out waiting for our buzzers to go off. One by one, each of our buzzers went off and we were seated. Again, Disney had no idea that we all knew each other and we were not expecting to be seated together nor at the same time. But I would say that all but one of the 6 families was sat within 10-12 minutes of each other.
Here is where it gets bad, sad and unbelievable. That other family was still waiting 20 minutes after we all had been sat; then 30 minutes. Parties of the same size and larger who arrived after them were being sat. Finally the husband of this family goes over to the hostess and asks why his family has been waiting so long. Apparently she has no information so she goes and gets the manager. The manager comes over and tells the family that they have no reservations
how can they have no reservations when they are up on the 15th floor holding a buzzer? So he shows them their ADR confirmation #. The manager tells him there is no ADR in the computer under that # and that the buzzer is not turned on or linked to an reservation at all. Well, anyone who's eating at the California Grill knows you are not getting up that elevator from the 2nd floor without checking in with the desk and getting a buzzer, which they had. At this point, another one of the husbands who had been seated with his family gets up and intervenes, talking to the manager. The manager tells him the same thing.... no reservation for this family of 5 and also says that they are totally booked and they had to leave. (even though I counted at least 3 empty tables and one that had been empty since before we were sat). Now this family is shocked, embarassed and mortified. They are not the type of people to cause a scene, so they leave. We were all in disbelief and shock but had already started to eat first courses so we stayed. (especially since the family told us "everything's fine, we'll just go somewhere else").
It's after 10 p.m. on the 4th of July, they've had no food for 3 hungry kids and the reason that they are mortified and seething on the inside is because they are a black family. The only black family in the entire restaurant.
If someone had told me that Disney was prejudice I would argue with them up one side and down the other. Absolutely, positively not. Disney is the most culturally diverse place I have ever been and they go out of their way to embrace people from all over the world. I still hope to God that this was all just a terrible, terrible mix up and it had absolutely nothing to do with the color of this family's skin but the situation looked horrible because they were the only black family in the restaurant. And why wouldn't the manager acknowledge that a mistake had obviously been made somewhere and seat them at one of the available tables?
Absolutely none of this makes sense to me and I was mortified for them. Being probably the biggest Disney fan on this dance team made me even more embarassed that this would happen. Like I mentioned, this is a good family who would never make a scene. I have suggested that they write to Disney and explain the situation (not that anything can be done at this point but to let them know what happened and how horrible it appeared even if it didn't have anything to do with the fact that they were black it most certainly "appeared" that way and felt that way to them.
So I guess I'm telling you all this because I'd like to know if anyone else has ever experienced something similar and/or if anyone else has ever gotten up to the Cali Grill with an ADR confirmation # and a buzzer and been turned away. I am still stunned and shocked that this happened.... I keep going over it in my mind trying to figure out what really happened and I am at a loss

We were in Disney for a dance competition (for my daughter, not me) so there were a lot of us with the team although everyone mostly did their own thing when there were no dance obligations. Way back months ago I had scored an ADR at Cali Grill for the 4th fireworks. I passed on that information to others and some families also chose to make their own ADRs. Because of the credit card policy at that restaurant, no one wanted to take responsibility for a huge ADR. Anyway, so it turned out that 6 families had seperate ADRs within 15-20 minutes of each other. We never linked these ADRs in any way and Disney had no way of knowing that we all knew each other.
Fast forward to the evening of the 4th. We all arrived early to go up to the observation deck to watch the fireworks. At the 2nd floor desk we all checked in separately for our respective ADRs and were each given a buzzer and told we could go up to watch the fireworks but our tables wouldn't be ready until our ADR times. Totally expected and acceptable. The elevator operator check our ADR confirmations given to us at check in and takes us up (not all together as we were a large group). We go up, we watch the fireworks (which were Absolutely Amazing!!!) and linger around inside and out waiting for our buzzers to go off. One by one, each of our buzzers went off and we were seated. Again, Disney had no idea that we all knew each other and we were not expecting to be seated together nor at the same time. But I would say that all but one of the 6 families was sat within 10-12 minutes of each other.
Here is where it gets bad, sad and unbelievable. That other family was still waiting 20 minutes after we all had been sat; then 30 minutes. Parties of the same size and larger who arrived after them were being sat. Finally the husband of this family goes over to the hostess and asks why his family has been waiting so long. Apparently she has no information so she goes and gets the manager. The manager comes over and tells the family that they have no reservations

It's after 10 p.m. on the 4th of July, they've had no food for 3 hungry kids and the reason that they are mortified and seething on the inside is because they are a black family. The only black family in the entire restaurant.
If someone had told me that Disney was prejudice I would argue with them up one side and down the other. Absolutely, positively not. Disney is the most culturally diverse place I have ever been and they go out of their way to embrace people from all over the world. I still hope to God that this was all just a terrible, terrible mix up and it had absolutely nothing to do with the color of this family's skin but the situation looked horrible because they were the only black family in the restaurant. And why wouldn't the manager acknowledge that a mistake had obviously been made somewhere and seat them at one of the available tables?
Absolutely none of this makes sense to me and I was mortified for them. Being probably the biggest Disney fan on this dance team made me even more embarassed that this would happen. Like I mentioned, this is a good family who would never make a scene. I have suggested that they write to Disney and explain the situation (not that anything can be done at this point but to let them know what happened and how horrible it appeared even if it didn't have anything to do with the fact that they were black it most certainly "appeared" that way and felt that way to them.
So I guess I'm telling you all this because I'd like to know if anyone else has ever experienced something similar and/or if anyone else has ever gotten up to the Cali Grill with an ADR confirmation # and a buzzer and been turned away. I am still stunned and shocked that this happened.... I keep going over it in my mind trying to figure out what really happened and I am at a loss


