I'm sorry I've been MIA for the past few days, but over the past week everything has been thrown for a loop, and I've been on overdrive trying to get things squared away.
On Wed we got some good news and some bad news, and since I'm fan of getting the bad news out of the way first- DH's deployment was extended. Its another 4 months on top of the 8 months we were already doing, so it adds up to just about a year away.
I'm really not keen on this, I was hoping to be all settled in our new house in the spring, giving Everett enough time to adjust, and get him ready for preschool in the fall. I'm also really sad that DH has to miss even more of new baby's first year. Coming home to a 3 month old is one thing, but coming back to a 7 month old is a whole different story.
There is some good news though- the ship is coming back for Christmas and is staying in the states for a little over 6 weeks. Then it is going back out to finish the extra four months.
The ship is (shockingly) being nice to DH and letting him fly off the ship early, so he can be here for the birth.
He is going to have to be back in Norfolk after Christmas to continue to work, so we're going to have to pack up, move to Norfolk, and stay in an extended stay hotel for about a month so we can spend some time with him. You know, moving into a hotel with a newborn and a three year old was always on my bucket list.
I am very, very, happy and thankful that he will be home for the birth and I'm glad he'll get to spend some time with me and Everett and the new baby. However, I am apprehensive about all the extra stress and craziness.
The holidays are always stressful and crazy, add in a new baby, a homecoming, a temporary move, and sending DH back on deployment, and I may very well loose my mind.
With everything going on, I'm going to have to put this TR on hold. I'm going to try to get one more vacation update in before DH gets home, but after that it might have to wait until after the dust settles and we are once again back in CT and back into what passes for our normal life nowadays.
I can't say how much your friendship and support has meant to me over past months, and I hope that you will stick around, because I fully intend to see this TR to the end (whenever that may be!).