We will be there from April 27th-May 8th.
I too have waffled back and forth about crowds, about when we should go etc. I originally set the dates, and now my BIL is getting married while we are down there, so we can't change. (Plus, I don't think I would if I could)
I expect it be busier than usual for the period, but not like Easter or Mid-Summer crowds... and if it is... so be it. We get a couple of days in every park, so it isn't like we have to everything in a day. Plus, my DW and DD and I are already planning our September trip.
This is our plan for 45 days from now and we are sticking to it
Tuesday April 26th
Drive to Buffalo NY, and spend the night in the Holiday Inn Airport
Wednesday April 27th
8:25 AM Delta Flight
11:35AM Delta Flight
Pick up Rental at Alamo
Mom & Niece Drive down
Meet at Orlando Premium Outlet for some 1st minute shopping (yes, that is the opposite of last minute)
Check in Port Orleans Riverside Resort
Chef Mickeys 6pm
Magic Kingdom - Wishes at 9pm
Extra Magic Hours 9pm-12am
Thursday April 28th
Magic Kingdom
Lunch at Whispering Canyon Cafe at Wilderness Lodge
Dinner at Columbia Harbor house
Wishes
Friday April 29th
EPCOT
Princess Storybook Breakfast @ Akershus in Norway 830am
Beaches & Cream for Lunch
Illuminations
Saturday April 30th
Animal Kingdom Extra Magic Hour Early Entry
Bunn Family Arrival
Check in to Marriott Royal Palms
Dinner for all - at 5:30 pm (Golden Corral)
Downtown Disney for those interested
Sunday May 1st
Boatwrights for Breakfast 7am
Checkout Port Orleans Riverside Resort
Disney/MGM Studios
Hollywood & Vine Dinner Package for Krafts 4:20pm
Fantasmic
Monday May 2nd
Magic Kingdom
Crystal Palace Character Breakfast 8 am
Liberty Tree Tavern Dinner
Wishes
Tuesday May 3rd
Animal Kingdom
2nd Annual Walt Disney World Invitational Golf Tournament, on your choice of two of the finest courses in the world. (Gray has to play the same course with Steve.....)
Wednesday May 4th
EPCOT 9am-2pm
The Lovely Union of Mike & Jeanette 6pm at the Gazebo at Lakeside, Kissimmee FL on Beautiful Lake Tohopekaliga
Dinner at Boatwright's Dining Hall 7:50pm
Check in for the Newleyweds at All-Stars Music Resort
Thursday May 5th
Typhoon Lagoon
Disney Quest
Pleasure Island
Friday May 6th
EPCOT
Lunch at ESPN Boardwalk
Illuminations
Saturday May 7th
Disney Studios OR Magic Kingdom
Sunday May 8th
Return Flight 11:42 AM Delta
Obviously there will be rest break, swimming, relaxing, and lots of fun thrown in there for good measure!
