I have MS. I don't go around talking about it. Here is different because I'm not looking someone in the eye it is anonymous basically. Last trip by the end I was so exhausted and had so much leg pain. I walk I don't use a wheelchair. I am strong and suck up the pain. I also know this year I have gotten progressively worse. My day ends by 11 am because I am so tired and I 'm just dealing with the constant pain somewhere in my body(legs, back, arms-my new issue). I don't want a wheelchair at Disney. I am not mentally or emotionally ready to give up and sit in a chair-period. I was reading about the
DAS at the beginning of this thread on the Disney website and on allears. I felt confident and good that this would be good for me. I could get a return time go sit on a bench let the family do what they want and then we could go on the ride together as a family with minimal impact on my family or my body. I thought this was going to be good. Now I've read multiple pages in this thread that have taken my positive outlook away. What if I don't get a DAS? Will they turn me away because someone doesn't understand my problem? I'm clear and concise and educated, I can advocate for myself but I never thought a CM would just say no. Is being rejected an isolated occurrence or is that something that could happen? Will I have to keep explaining over and over my needs with a DAS? I don't want to share with every CM my health history. I spend lots of my time on the sidelines watching my family instead of being included and I just want to have fun on my trip and be part of them. I just wanted vacation to be a time I can live my life and not watch my life go by. I would like to hear positive things on this thread about DAS not only the problems so I can see the overall experience to make a better judgment if DAS will be right for me.
First off, I have JRA (Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis) so I can relate to a lot of the situations you face with pain and decreasing stamina and wanting to avoid wheelchairs as a sign of failure. I grew up with those issues. Been there, done it and got the t-shirt to prove it. Unfortunately my disease went unchecked so I also ended up with a lot of joint damage/deformity and permanent disability. It's no longer a question of how much willpower I have to overcome my body's weaknesses; I plain cannot go out and about without wheels or do pretty much anything without a special tool. It's these tools (like carrying around a dressing stick all day as a third arm/reacher) that make the difference between me staying at home in my bedroom or existing in the world with some semblance of a normal life.
One of the concerns you're dealing with is that mental barrier prohibiting you from using a tool that can help you far more than any DAS/GAC or alternate ride entry thing. Having wheels means you can enjoy just walking through the park enjoying the sights and sounds with your family and not being left on the sidelines to wait for them. You do not have to use a wheelchair. Instead I'd recommend you try an
ECV. This will provide you a much more comfortable seat, basket for your stuff and the ability to conserve your strength for the places you want to get up and walk for. It doesn't have the same stigma as a wheelchair because ECV folks can get up and walk. (Yes I know there are some ignorant fools who then think they're lazy, but you just drive past them and ponder their parentage as you dismiss them.) Point is an ECV will allow you to enjoy far more of your day than any pass would. You'll be able to watch parades and fireworks from anywhere instead of having to find a bench. You can stroll through Osborne Lights and actually enjoy it without actively trying to ignore the pain in your legs.
I resisted the idea of getting a power chair for so many years because I feared the emotional repercussions. I'd been told it was a sign of failure. I was told people would pity me or think less of me.
You know what I discovered the first day I went out in a power chair? The world. For the first time I could go through a mall and look at the merchandise without worrying about tripping, my legs hurting so much I'd fall or where the nearest seat was. I could actually live a normal life. And those few idiots who pitied or mocked me...? Well I either was so busy living I didn't notice them or I just zoomed right on past them to go enjoy something else. Now if some makes a crack at me, I just laugh and roll away. And I remind myself just how foolish I was to deny myself use of this valuable tool.
Think about it, would you scrub the floor with a toothbrush if you had a mop handy?
Truth is DAS is meant for people who have problems being inside the regular queues. It's not going to get you onto a ride quicker. It's not meant for people who cannot stand long times, because they'll just be standing elsewhere. It's not perfect and there are issues left in how it accommodates different disabilities.
You will most likely be told you're better off renting an ECV because honestly that is true. But don't be discouraged. That advice is not meant to be cruel or uncaring. It's just recognizing that you are forcing yourself to miss out on so much more by not using this tool.