I finally feel a little better today.....so I'm attacking the large amounts of paperwork that has accumulated as a result of Ray's passing.....insurance company, VA, pension, social security.....bla bla bla.
The insurance company gave me some bad news today. It seems that because I live in PA and the amount of the claim, it has to go thru probate. I have to hire a lawyer and let the courts get involved, even though mom left a Will. AND she named me and my bro executors. SO he will have to co-sign everything and he lives on a ship in Corpus Christie.
Everything is so complicated, never simple.